Damn, Mac! Way to strike fear. A woman's first really big cock, either black or white, can be a wonderful experience. And a woman's fears are already there when it comes to a man's excessive size. I know my hubby likes me to be with the biggest cocks as well. And some men are really big, and some can hurt. If they take their time, it can be a very, very pleasurable experience.
I know your humor. And that's cool. I just know since I have had sex with so many men for the last 6 years I am a lot looser than I used to be. I wouldn't say my pussy is ruined. It is just a bit more comfortable to fuck.