Turning your wife into a Black Cock slut

I’m not going to mention BBC to her until she brings it up. That way I can tell she’s thinking (fantasizing) about it. I’m sure she will miss her BBC dildo.

Ive done the same with J the last few times we’ve spoken about it, made sure that I don’t mention it at all and wait for her to subtly get us talking about it. It’s the proof I need to keep pushing this forward!

We covered so much ground the other night that I needed to note it down :) it’s a strange phenomenon turning a fantasy into a reality..
 
go to a club, that would definitely be the easiest way

You need to be 100% progressed with the whole notion before you can just turn up at a club. Besides, J wouldn’t accept just any old guy from the club. She’s extremely picky. We will be looking for a clean, professional, experienced, intelligent, trustworthy bull, not just any old guy that we meet on a night out.
 
I was lucky ? my wife was the one who got her into it. She started out with telling me about her former lovers especially a black man. (We both did) I admitted that I would love to fuck a black woman, she came up with the idea that we should try to get a swingers black couple. We ended up with just the guy first. And you probably know the rest?
 
We had a great conversation about it last night. Over some wine we discussed J fucking a BBC for what must have been a good couple of hours. She brought it up initially in a round-a-bout subtle way. I knew what she was doing so I ran with it. Proof to me that she wants this deep down. We covered a few red lines and ‘procedures’ and fears and worries, but ultimately we have moved this along nicely..

The long and the short of it (no pun intended) is that we established that it *will* happen - which is an incredible progression. However, we spent a lot of time talking about when, how and with who. We spoke about how the occasion would pan out (not just the fucking but also the build up, the meet, the getting to know the bull, etc). Another point J raised was what if it really is true that once you go black you never go back, to which i replied, well that’s simple...we do it again and again? J’s main concern is that we’ll lose respect for each other. I told her that I will idolise her even more afterwards, but that if she’s going to lose respect for me then that’s a red line I won’t cross. Told her we’d take it bit by bit and gauge our feelings every step of the way. What if it physically hurts was another concern. I told J that’s she’s a very sexual woman and she will be able to ‘take’ it. I know that for a fact because on the few occasions that we’ve used a big 9in dildo she’s taken it all, with ease, all the way in, even though she has a beautiful tight pussy normally, it stretches when it needs to. I repeated a few times to her that I think she will really, really enjoy it, and if she does I will, more so.

Another of J’s concerns is that we’ll lose our love and intimacy for each other. I said to her worst case we do this once and both regret it. Jeez we’ve been through a fuck of a lot together we’ll put this down to just another dumb experimental thing we’ve done, then get on with our life again, laugh about it, get turned on by it and move on.

The main thing is we are talking about it. Baby steps. Discuss, wait, discuss more, leave it a while and then when the time is right we’ll know. I hope at least!!

We had passionate sex last night. J was horny as hell. She needed to be fucked following our chat and that says it all to me, no?
thats awesome
 
I was lucky ? my wife was the one who got her into it. She started out with telling me about her former lovers especially a black man. (We both did) I admitted that I would love to fuck a black woman, she came up with the idea that we should try to get a swingers black couple. We ended up with just the guy first. And you probably know the rest?
When you come to Trinidad I'll be able to hook you up with a sexy black woman...
 
I was lucky ? my wife was the one who got her into it. She started out with telling me about her former lovers especially a black man. (We both did) I admitted that I would love to fuck a black woman, she came up with the idea that we should try to get a swingers black couple. We ended up with just the guy first. And you probably know the rest?
was all this while you were dating or after you were married?
 
I was lucky ? my wife was the one who got her into it. She started out with telling me about her former lovers especially a black man. (We both did) I admitted that I would love to fuck a black woman, she came up with the idea that we should try to get a swingers black couple. We ended up with just the guy first. And you probably know the rest?

Great approach, the funny thing is that J tells me she’ll f***g ******* me if I EVER fuck another woman ? but I love it like that. And I don’t want to fuck another woman, I just want her to fuck all the BBC she can handle (which I feel is gonna be a lot)!!
 
I was lucky ? my wife was the one who got her into it. She started out with telling me about her former lovers especially a black man. (We both did) I admitted that I would love to fuck a black woman, she came up with the idea that we should try to get a swingers black couple. We ended up with just the guy first. And you probably know the rest?
so you didn't get to try another woman, but you discovered that you enjoy sharing your wife with other men?
 
Before trying to turn her into a slut for bbc, bring out the slut first, do it slowly take your time and don’t rush her.
Start with little things like the way she dresses every day, if she normally wear panties have her stop wearing them (but allow her to have some in her bag to be on the safe side) Once she gets use to that introduce small toys like little dildos and but plug, have her put them in before leaving the house and have her keep them in for as long as she can handle them. This is something she can do no matter what type of work she does it all going on under her clothes so no one else knows but her which means she can be as slutty as she wants everyday and no one will know it but you and her.

Once she is use to that start having her wear more revealing clothes like short dresses, tight tops (with or without a bra)
Once she’s comfortable doing that take her someplace nobody knows you and drive around the area with her dressed like a slut (very short skirt no bra or panties) and have her do small things first like masturbate in the car, go into a store for something or put gas in the car something to make her walk around in public. Little stuff like that to get her started and then introduce the bbc side again. Let her get comfortable being a slut.
 
Most Black men have a natural dominant personality. We have the ability to make total strangers obey us either in person, on the internet or oh the phone (yes I have done all 3)
Before trying to turn her into a slut for bbc, bring out the slut first, do it slowly take your time and don’t rush her.
Start with little things like the way she dresses every day, if she normally wear panties have her stop wearing them (but allow her to have some in her bag to be on the safe side) Once she gets use to that introduce small toys like little dildos and but plug, have her put them in before leaving the house and have her keep them in for as long as she can handle them. This is something she can do no matter what type of work she does it all going on under her clothes so no one else knows but her which means she can be as slutty as she wants everyday and no one will know it but you and her.

Once she is use to that start having her wear more revealing clothes like short dresses, tight tops (with or without a bra)
Once she’s comfortable doing that take her someplace nobody knows you and drive around the area with her dressed like a slut (very short skirt no bra or panties) and have her do small things first like masturbate in the car, go into a store for something or put gas in the car something to make her walk around in public. Little stuff like that to get her started and then introduce the bbc side again. Let her get comfortable being a slut.
That is great advice, I will try it.
 
Looking for advice here.

I’ve already bought her the BBC dildos. She cums very hard on them. In fact when she’s riding me she can’t cum and will jump off and say with urgency she wants the black cock in her (meaning the BBC dildo). I’ve already told her the Black Cock is superior and will fuck her like she’s never been fucked before. When she cums on the BBC dildos I ask her if she’s a Black Cock slut and she tells me, “Yes, you made me like this, but that’s what you want right?” I tell her most definitely yes. Then I tell her imagine how a real, warm, throbbing Black Cock would feel in her pussy. I ask her if she wants to try a real one. When she’s in the ******* of orgasm she say Yes! Yes!

But here is the problem:

After the sex, like the next day, she will just say it’s fantasy and go back to normal. The Black Cock slut disappears until the next session. How can I get her to finally go through with having sex with a well endowed black man with me watching?
Oh wow. This is awesome.

Have you told her you want to be cucked?
Tell her straight up man. This is a must do now.
Maybe she is not into the Sub/ Cuck thing, my wife and I are not. We like swapping and watching each other playing with someone else. We like the forbidden fruit aspect of things, IR included. Of course I would watch her getting gangbanged by a 3 peckered Martian. Not everyone is into the sissy cuck bullshit.
 
My best advice for you and your wife, is to play it out in bed and keep it as a fantasy. If for whatever reason, both of you have agreed to dip into this lifestyle and make it a reality; make sure both of you play together or you may end up losing her for good.

If your marriage or your relationship isn't secured with her, stop and don't do it. It's definitely will deem to failure and causes you nothing but headache and trouble.

Most women like and want real man in and out of bed. Men enjoy voyeurism, while women get emotionally attached to the man, especially if the sex is better and greater than you. If you let her see the same guy, sleep with and spend time with him any time, your days are numbered for losing her. Make sure both of you know and set the ground rules. Always have time and intimacy with her, despite she prefers him. Its not only about her or her bull. Its about both of you....

You get to play out your fantasy with her over and over, and you can stop and quit any time, but once you open the Pandora box, it becomes a reality. You cannot rewind reality, or make her stop if she wants to continue....
Well Said, Easy. You do not have to be a sissy cuckhold to be into wife sharing . She is your wife and if you choose to share her thats your business. We don't get into the inferior/superior thing, if that is what floats your boat thats fine go for it, but don't feel like that is a requirement to have IR sex. For us it is a privilege for a guy to be allowed to play with my wife. If they take the superior attitude then they don't get to play, simple.
 
Enjoy the fantasy and your wife! It took about 2-3 years before my ex wife finally tried a real different cock after years of playing with dildos and roleplaying. Most women start like yours but in their minds it’s wrong to cheat or they don’t want to ruin what they have in the relationship. Well yes bringing another cock in to fuck your gorgeous wife is fun, exciting and hot, it also brings emotions and another person in to your guys life and relationship! Go slow and be patient.
Exactly, Swinger clubs or retreats like Hedonism allow you to enjoy an erotic atmosphere without the pressure to indulge. Many people simply watch others either having sex or just being erotic letting it build the sexual tension then they go have fun by themselves. Most of these places have "Open rooms or areas" where people can either have sex or watch or both. This is often how new couple break the ice. Getting her into an erotic atmosphere where others, especially other women are enjoying open free sex will usually allow new folks to feel more comfortable breaking lifelong taboos.
 
Looking for advice here.

I’ve already bought her the BBC dildos. She cums very hard on them. In fact when she’s riding me she can’t cum and will jump off and say with urgency she wants the black cock in her (meaning the BBC dildo). I’ve already told her the Black Cock is superior and will fuck her like she’s never been fucked before. When she cums on the BBC dildos I ask her if she’s a Black Cock slut and she tells me, “Yes, you made me like this, but that’s what you want right?” I tell her most definitely yes. Then I tell her imagine how a real, warm, throbbing Black Cock would feel in her pussy. I ask her if she wants to try a real one. When she’s in the ******* of orgasm she say Yes! Yes!

But here is the problem:

After the sex, like the next day, she will just say it’s fantasy and go back to normal. The Black Cock slut disappears until the next session. How can I get her to finally go through with having sex with a well endowed black man with me watching?View attachment 2612738
Everyone woman is different. Some want to act out/explore their fantasies and some just like the idea. Best thing to do is to continue to be patient with her and let her go at her own pace. That way, if she does ever agree to go through with the fantasy, she’ll truly enjoy and be into it instead of uncomfortable or simply doing it because she thinks it will please you. You’ll enjoy the former a hell of a lot more, I guarantee it.
 
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