Trying to get wife into the lifestyle but doesn’t seem to have any interest

So want my wife to try the BBC but every time I bring it up she says no it’s so frustrating I don’t get it she likes ir porn but that’s as far as it goes
So respect her wishes. What do you do when she nags the ******* out of you on something you don’t want to do? You’re imposing your fantatsy on her. She said no. What part of that don’t you understand? Do you think you’re going to “talk” her into it?
 
Patients and communication about your fantasies and desires. She may change her mind over time, but it won’t happen w pressure.

But as it has already been said, she may be happy w just you. If she came to you and said she’s always wanted to see a girthy 10” BBC buried inside you while another one was fed to you, you might have a strong reaction! Just because someone finds something hot, it doesn’t mean everyone does.
 
So want my wife to try the BBC but every time I bring it up she says no it’s so frustrating I don’t get it she likes ir porn but that’s as far as it goes
Lots of info I'd ask before giving a serious answer, however, you're in the majority and the many posts here are from "wishful thinkers", so don't feel left out. If sex is good with the two of you and she feels satisfied & content, she may never. Also, most married females (particularly when children are present) don't wish to risk doing damage to the relationship. Lets face it, IF it was to turn out really good and she showed her enjoyment and desire to continue, you don't know what reaction you might have to that ... jealousy pops up almost instantly when a guy thinks his wife prefers someone other than himself. Maybe if you had some friends who are already involved in 3-somes or swapping and they talked openly of how it had invigorated their own sex life, your wife would be more likely to at least listen.
Many couples get involved in bringing in outside parties when their own sexual activities have decreased to little or none. By then it'd probably do more damage than good to turn the wife on to other guys.
It took me over 8 years just to get my wife to let me watch her masturbate to orgasm ... go figure.
But, good luck!
 
My wife could care less about fucking anymore. Some women just lose interest in sex. Of course they put me on testosterone and I'm horny as a 3 ball tom cat now! lolwould
That sucks bro. I would consider my marriage over. Ive had a talk about use getting older. I told her i want to make sure we both stay in shape to continue to have sex. Maybe she needs estrogen supplements. Hopefully she is up to seeing a Dr for treatment. I wish you the best. Because a sexless marriage is bullshit!!! I couldn't do it.
 
How long have you been married? How old are you? How old is she? Do you have c h I l d r e n? What type of area do you live in? City or rural? What type of upbringing did you each have? Family lifestyle? How intimate are you two as far as telling each other your inner feelings? I believe I have a decent formula for whether a couple can safely make this relationship work.
 
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