Seperated, but living together with hotwife

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Currently I share apartment with my wife. We separated on very good terms a month ago.
We both still love each other as best friends and have a beautiful 4 year old baby together.
We are both 32 years old. I am a computer nerd and she is 10/10 trophy wife (recently got boobs and nose done to improve herself even further)

A little background:

We know each other for 25 years, since we went to same school and got together shortly after I went to college.
We got married after 1 year of dating. She is is the only girl I had sex with ever.

We were both very poor, but then got rich over the years and brought our dream apartment a year ago.

I developed cuckold fantasies about two years in our marriage, since I noticed very bad performance on my part.
We tried femdom last year and she liked it a lot, but somehow due to stress it fell apart.

I always tried convincing her to cuckold me, but she said she has a mental block. She is too loyal to do that.
We tried being in open relationship an she still could date others.

Then few months ago random black guy got in her DMs and she started developing feelings to him. He live far away, but are planning to meet up very soon.
He is very dominant alpha male with 9 inch cock, mine is 5 inch and I am bad at dominating.
A dream scenario for cuckold right?

Nope, she said only way she can consider having sex with another if we are separated and would not have sex in any way.
Yea, so we both went through a week long depression.
Living together works for now, because we have our own space within huge apartment. A baby does not suspect anything.

Since the separation I have mixed feelings:
On one hand I am totally free rich young man who could find new dates and be a sugar daddy to 20 year old.

On other hand I still love her and fantasize about being her cuckold, being ****** to wear chastity cage while cleaning up her creampie.
I could even accept being pussy free if I can eat her ass and pussy often.
This is still a lifelong dream of mine.

What should I do? Should I wait longer, maybe after she fucks new guy for a while she might go for cuckold dynamic?

Anyone has been in similar spot?

 

[Mslubrandy]

Interesting position, I think you may need to make yourself super charming with her, go out of your way to do all she needs when you are home so she can focus on being a trophy wife and getting the black cock she craves. You could pay for him to visit and talk positively about him visiting and tucking her whilst you look after your baby, be super supportive and submissive to him, wash and press his clothes daily, fetch him drinks, be ultra submissive to them and see if they include you. You could watch interracial porn with lots of clean up and chastity when they are around to drop hints

 

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Interesting position, I think you may need to make yourself super charming with her, go out of your way to do all she needs when you are home so she can focus on being a trophy wife and getting the black cock she craves. You could pay for him to visit and talk positively about him visiting and tucking her whilst you look after your baby, be super supportive and submissive to him, wash and press his clothes daily, fetch him drinks, be ultra submissive to them and see if they include you. You could watch interracial porn with lots of clean up and chastity when they are around to drop hints

That is a great idea. If I show massive support and excitement for her fucking him, she might rethink whole dynamic.
Like if she does it and does not feel like cheater and has his loving husbands support.

 

[Mslubrandy]

That is a great idea. If I show massive support and excitement for her fucking him, she might rethink whole dynamic.
Like if she does it and does not feel like cheater and has his loving husbands support.

When she mentions him, offer to fly him over, be positive and supportive about him fucking her, facilitate it. Let me know how it goes

 

[tiny_tim]

Start a conversation with the Bull. If he is so dominant, he may be interested in dominating you along with her.