Please, Advice guidance help needed....

[mw29]

white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us.. I have more pictures of my white wife..

 

[BbcHuntress]

Husband here, part of white couple in our 30s.. Hoping to find a black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved in this lifestyle without having a left field conversation about this as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true potential this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not looking to meet asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us..

Good luck. Keep at it, it takes awhile before she ultimately accepts it

 

[hotwifejasmine]

Have you spoken to her, at all, about your desires and wishes? What was her response if you did? Is she open to the concept of fucking other guys? black guys?

HWJ

 

[mw29]

Have you spoken to her, at all, about your desires and wishes? What was her response if you did? Is she open to the concept of fucking other guys? black guys?

HWJ

No, she is unaware at this time

 

[WetNwild57]

i dont know about other white wives but me I do not like porn either But i do love my husband more than anything in this world and all it took was him to ask me to do it was i nervous absolutely but 1st time was with a firend of hubbys and that helped a lot he was slow and helped me ease into it Good luck and enjoy its a lot of fun if there is no jealously involved

 

[hotwifejasmine]

No, she is unaware at this time

Well that is your first step then. You have to talk to her about it and see what her reaction is, otherwise you are destined to be a wannabe for the rest of your life. She may jump at the chance of extra, big cock in her!

HWJ

 

[andypanty]

Some wives just aren't interested in straying either. Even talking about it might still leave you "destined to be a wannabe for the rest of your life".

Mine knows she could and has indeed done things when we were younger [not black] but she is just not interested. Even though she had fun at the time. She also enjoyed 50 Shades but will she read any other erotica? No. Will she strip off for a massage? No. I'm still waiting for her 30s libido increase to kick in, and we're way past that time.

 

[hotwifejasmine]

For every woman there is a "key" that opens up her "lock" and once that "key" is found then a floodgate is opened and what is revealed can be quite shocking and ferocious to witness. Almost like the birth of a she devil is witnessed, and a hitherto demure and shy wife is suddenly transformed into raving nymphomaniac!

The "trick" is finding what that "key" is. You as the hubby may not have that "key" and may never have it, however the "key" exists and is real...maybe its a younger more virile man/ maybe its a black man, maybe its even a woman or a certain set of circumstances that just ring her bell and open that "lock". So what is a hubby to do? Well never give up, but do not keep harping on about it all the time, keep telling her how attractive she is, and how you have noticed other men noticing that too, especially the younger ones, or black men, and maybe even the odd woman or two are even stealing a peek now and then.

Buy her sexy clothes and lingerie, shoes, perfume etc. take her to clubs, bars and restaurants, and just keep going. Then, maybe, one day that "key" will suddenly be revealed? The main point is if, and or when it does, you as the hubby MUST be prepared to seize that opportunity and go with it, whatever and wherever it is. If you baulk at it, or even suggest your not fully on board with it, then the "door" will be slammed shut, never to open again...just so you know!

I've seen this happen all too often. The hubby shy's away from a first hot encounter, when the wife is all fired up and ready to submit after years of sexual repression, and BOOM! the hubby wants to back out! The whole thing just deflates like a lead balloon, and its all the dumb hubbies fault! She will never try again!

So be ready and be patient!

HWJ

 

[mw29]

For every woman there is a "key" that opens up her "lock" and once that "key" is found then a floodgate is opened and what is revealed can be quite shocking and ferocious to witness. Almost like the birth of a she devil is witnessed, and a hitherto demure and shy wife is suddenly transformed into raving nymphomaniac!

The "trick" is finding what that "key" is. You as the hubby may not have that "key" and may never have it, however the "key" exists and is real...maybe its a younger more virile man/ maybe its a black man, maybe its even a woman or a certain set of circumstances that just ring her bell and open that "lock". So what is a hubby to do? Well never give up, but do not keep harping on about it all the time, keep telling her how attractive she is, and how you have noticed other men noticing that too, especially the younger ones, or black men, and maybe even the odd woman or two are even stealing a peek now and then.

Buy her sexy clothes and lingerie, shoes, perfume etc. take her to clubs, bars and restaurants, and just keep going. Then, maybe, one day that "key" will suddenly be revealed? The main point is if, and or when it does, you as the hubby MUST be prepared to seize that opportunity and go with it, whatever and wherever it is. If you baulk at it, or even suggest your not fully on board with it, then the "door" will be slammed shut, never to open again...just so you know!

I've seen this happen all too often. The hubby shy's away from a first hot encounter, when the wife is all fired up and ready to submit after years of sexual repression, and BOOM! the hubby wants to back out! The whole thing just deflates like a lead balloon, and its all the dumb hubbies fault! She will never try again!

So be ready and be patient!

HWJ

Great thoughts on breaking it down in your view

 

[ByroF]

husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us..View attachment 4568162

I understand and appreciate your honesty. I can prepare the two of you well. I can bring the slut out of her. She must continue to pose and show her beautiful body in preparation for bbc. She will be taught to look in your eyes as the bbc is entering her and tell you how much she needs the bbc. You must tell her to display the pussy in front of the bbc.

 

[mw29]

I understand and appreciate your honesty. I can prepare the two of you well. I can bring the slut out of her. She must continue to pose and show her beautiful body in preparation for bbc. She will be taught to look in your eyes as the bbc is entering her and tell you how much she needs the bbc. You must tell her to display the pussy in front of the bbc.

Great message. Really need your help, would like to know much more about you and your location please?

 

[ByroF]

Houston, Texas. I have spent lots of time sharing how-to information along these lines.

 

[mw29]

Houston, Texas. I have spent lots of time sharing how-to information along these lines.

Please message me directly if you like or tell me more tru here

 

[BDG69]

Do you have off on weekends or in Manhattan too? You need to get her around Black Men..and I’m volunteering. Invite me over for a game..who’re your favorite teams?

 

[mw29]

Do you have off on weekends or in Manhattan too? You need to get her around Black Men..and I’m volunteering. Invite me over for a game..who’re your favorite teams?

We live in nj pretty much in nj on weekends but i work in manhattan during the eeek

 

[mw29]

white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us..View attachment 4568162

 

[BDG69]

I know you live in NJ..and you answered my question. Check your messages

 

[whitepvnda]

white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us..View attachment 4568162

How old is your wife ? You have to take things very slow . IR porn was what was the game changer for us personally. You could always try and order her a black dildo drop a hint with that .. talk about swinging in general as fun or ask to role play with you tell her it turns you on and then it might flick a switch in her mind and turn her on knowing it turns you on

 

[whitepvnda]

How old is your wife ? You have to take things very slow . IR porn was what was the game changer for us personally. You could always try and order her a black dildo drop a hint with that .. talk about swinging in general as fun or ask to role play with you tell her it turns you on and then it might flick a switch in her mind and turn her on knowing it turns you on

You have to make you two have a great relationship mostly and good communication

 

[mw29]

both later 30s Thanks for the thoughts, admire your forwardness