You are, as usual, hilarious. You really write very well Mary.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater??
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If it's with the right black guy you know she is going back for more...
Then what brings you here, are you just another run of the mill pussy hound who just happened to land here?
Observers can see the results of certain actions, practitioners get to feel it, since cuckoldry is 90% of how it makes you feel, practitioners have it all over the observers…if you don’t do it, you can’t feel it!
Okay…who are you and what have you done to MasterAtlatl? LOL…you should’ve led with that, now I’m dealing with a somewhat more intelligent sounding person than I was with your first volley. I personally find the constant disclaimer required before you can say anything these days really annoying…we can’t say a single thing without being accused of “stereotyping”…were constantly besmirched for using it, or generalizing as the phrase goes. If you ask my husband he’s fond of saying “when it comes to women, the only thing you can be a 100% sure of, is the fact that you can never be a 100% sure”. Stereotyping…or the use of it is frowned upon, because it generalizes, truth is, it’s one of the main reasons we survived as a species, it lives in the base of our brain, it’s that thing that told us that bright yellow thing that lights stuff up can be really hot if you get too close to it, that thing that told us Sabre Tooth Tigers we’re not our friends. Every race has guys with big dicks, but it’s really more of a percentage thing, in my experience if you line a 100 white guys up maybe you’ll find 25 to 30 of them have more than 7 inches, if you do the same with black guys you could almost flip those numbers around, so although all black guys aren’t hung, and we can’t know till the moment of truth, one has to hedge their bets and go with the odds. If I see three guys approaching me, dreds, a sports jersey three sizes to big, pants around their ass, and one hand under the shirt stuffed in their pants, I’m crossing to the other side of the street, again, percentages and stereotyping…on one hand I might owe someone an apology, on the other hand I might be in need of a funeral director!!! In reality, just about everything that comes out of our mouths is based on experience, which mean it’s stereotyping based on what we’ve seen before and are seeing now. So…to wrap this up, “there are more things in heaven and earth Horatio, than are dreamt in your philosophy”…LOL. In this relatively new media of texting we either have to start with a disclaimer in everything we say, or spend twice as much time back peddling just to keep all the doubters at bay…there’s always gonna be someone who says “yeah, but…”. Look how much you had to write just to clear up your point (and a fine job you did doing it by the way), but who wants to start off every statement sounding like a philosophy major, right? Cause sure as $hit someone’s gonna accuse you of being a know it all…you can’t fuck’n win, LOL I was serious about your most recent response, in fact it appears we’re really on the same page, we just didn’t take the time to point it out.
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Just to clear things up (percentage wise), if she cheats and gets caught she’ll beg for forgiveness, and will claim to do
”whatever it takes to make it right”, once it appears the spouse is open to suggestions, that almost instantly goes out the window…for instance, if your spouse is influenced by a guy who drinks too much, or a divorced girlfriend telling you wife how easy it is to cheat, and you tell her, “first off, no more hanging out with your friend Jenny, she’s a bad influence”, you’re hit with “she my friend, I can’t have friends, you can’t tell me who I can hang with” etc. what the fuck happens to “I’ll do whatever it takes”? That’s a doomed relationship, they just want to dig themselves out of the hole they’re in, but they still wanna have fun…run don’t walk! The fact is, regardless of who you are, be it a prim and proper housewife, or an upstanding family man, everyone is capable of finding themselves in that perfect storm which causes them to do something they never thought they’d do, those who are willing to do a 180 have a good chance of never letting it happen again, those that insist ”they’ve got a handle on it“, are doomed to be repeat offenders, like I did in the beginning…which for lack of a better idea, led to my hub giving in to my desires…he likened it to when his parents gave him permission to smoke, they claimed they’d rather have him smoke than create a Machiavellian schemer that couldn’t be trusted with the sleeves of a vest! There’s schools of thought that agree and disagree with that analogy, in reality it all depends on the personality your dealing with. 99% of the time a ******* addict is an addict, period…we say 99% of the time to allot for those people that will surely add “Yeah but” to the end of your statement. My hub was prescribed 90 Oxycontin pills a month, he knew instantly that the day would come when he had to pay the piper, after 14 months he noticed his resistance had gotten so high that he needed to take them every two hours just to be straight. So he finished what he had, spent three days not sleeping, finally *******, woke up in a puddle of diarrhea, then spent the next 10 days with cold sweats and shivers…went back to his doc and told him he wanted Oxycodone, he was on that for 9 months, took 5 days to get clean, then dropped down Hydrocodein for the next 9 months, then off completely…he also quit a 7 year intravenous coke habit overnight, took the money and bought a VCR, said he was tired of not having anything to show for it, that was in ‘89…he’s bought over fifty VCR’s since then, but hasn’t touched coke once. So when we say 99% of the time, we actually do have to recognize that 1%.
”whatever it takes to make it right”, once it appears the spouse is open to suggestions, that almost instantly goes out the window…for instance, if your spouse is influenced by a guy who drinks too much, or a divorced girlfriend telling you wife how easy it is to cheat, and you tell her, “first off, no more hanging out with your friend Jenny, she’s a bad influence”, you’re hit with “she my friend, I can’t have friends, you can’t tell me who I can hang with” etc. what the fuck happens to “I’ll do whatever it takes”? That’s a doomed relationship, they just want to dig themselves out of the hole they’re in, but they still wanna have fun…run don’t walk! The fact is, regardless of who you are, be it a prim and proper housewife, or an upstanding family man, everyone is capable of finding themselves in that perfect storm which causes them to do something they never thought they’d do, those who are willing to do a 180 have a good chance of never letting it happen again, those that insist ”they’ve got a handle on it“, are doomed to be repeat offenders, like I did in the beginning…which for lack of a better idea, led to my hub giving in to my desires…he likened it to when his parents gave him permission to smoke, they claimed they’d rather have him smoke than create a Machiavellian schemer that couldn’t be trusted with the sleeves of a vest! There’s schools of thought that agree and disagree with that analogy, in reality it all depends on the personality your dealing with. 99% of the time a ******* addict is an addict, period…we say 99% of the time to allot for those people that will surely add “Yeah but” to the end of your statement. My hub was prescribed 90 Oxycontin pills a month, he knew instantly that the day would come when he had to pay the piper, after 14 months he noticed his resistance had gotten so high that he needed to take them every two hours just to be straight. So he finished what he had, spent three days not sleeping, finally *******, woke up in a puddle of diarrhea, then spent the next 10 days with cold sweats and shivers…went back to his doc and told him he wanted Oxycodone, he was on that for 9 months, took 5 days to get clean, then dropped down Hydrocodein for the next 9 months, then off completely…he also quit a 7 year intravenous coke habit overnight, took the money and bought a VCR, said he was tired of not having anything to show for it, that was in ‘89…he’s bought over fifty VCR’s since then, but hasn’t touched coke once. So when we say 99% of the time, we actually do have to recognize that 1%.
Master Atlatl
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No, I'm not.
Bye now.
Hey Babe…I hope you realize that was an earlier response, I’m still good with how we resolved things earlier…I was in sarcastic mode back then, LOL
Wifeaskt4bf
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Not my barber! Lol
Let’s face it the most exciting sex a married wife can or will ever experience is all alone with someone brand new she’s attracted too and the guy is very much attracted to her in bed no condom completely unprotected with no pulling out especially that very first time together while her husband is at work and will never ever find out that an on going affair has just been born… these are just facts.
Can’t argue with that…
No truer words spoken. No wife cheats just once.
Not always ... Time & age tend to make a difference as new priorities arise + some people just suddenly realize that what they have at home is priceless.
Of course that's your opinion and certainly unproveable.
My wife did exactly tjisy. Stopped playing over 10 years ago, much to my chagrin
its different for women and men…which isn’t to say there aren’t men or women that act like the other sex to infidelity. Some men can forgive, others live their life as if the did, but the wife never knows at any given minute what they’re capable of…judges have this nasty habit of insisting on marital counseling, not taking into consideration the power the male ego has over the man who’s been cheated on…I often feel ifI was in front of a judge that insisted intend counseling I’d simply go up to his bench, squeeze some toothpaste out of a tube in front of him and say if you can put that back in the tube, then I’ll attend your counseling”. Both my hub and I are extremely stubborn people, my hub and his ******* didn’t speak for 40 years, then his ******* finally called and apologized, my hub let him off the hook, but he still held him responsible for the lost years,,,sometimes no matter how hard you try, you can’t fix betrayal,,,keep in mind, my hub was taught by his ******* to be that stubborn. The same thing happens in a marriage, the offended party loves the cheater, and yet they hate them cause they not only cheated, but it resulted in the fact that they could no longer be with the one they loved without giving up the respect they are due, not to mention the lost trust. Before the cheating one hopes that never happens and is reassured the longer it goes without happening, but once it does, that possibility is now a fact, so the same degree of trust can never be there…you simply can’t put the tooth paste back in the tube!
Never stop cheating.
