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CuriousSomeone

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I am a 26yo white male, my wife is 27 and average buid, sexy build, big ass, just the right amount of thick. We have been married about 4 years now, with 2 children. Which led her to be extremely selfconcious about her body. Years before we married I have been obsessed with having a BBC slut wife. I have only jacked off to IR porn for many years, I have always kept it a well guarded secret fantasy. My wife is fairly conservative, both our families are very conservative. She has never been with a black man. We have a good sexlife right now and she says I am big, though I am average 5.5 length, average girth. I, on the other hand, can only get off while fucking her thinking of her being stretched by BBC. She has been exposed to IR porn before browsing through sites together,(we have only watched porn together a few times) but she has never shown too much interest in it and I have always been too afraid to click on it while watching porn together. I led her to the female choice section of xhamster, which has a lot of IR then I tell her to find something she likes, hoping she'll click IR. She comments saying a lot of this is black on white, I just casually tell her I guess a lot of women like it because it's in this section for a reason. We also play with toys ALOT, she plays alone a lot too. Recently I bought a black mamba xl cock sleeve which is huge and pitch black. I fuck her with it almost every time we have sex right now at least half the time. She loves watching it slide in and out. A lot of the time I tell her to pick a toy, she'll grab the huge black sleeve and smile. Normally I'll fuck her with my dick (sometimes she grabs my hand and pushes my fingers in her pussy alongside my dick, sometimes she does it herself) , I'll put on the sleeve then fuck her brains out, she can take it ALL and it drives her crazy, then I'll fuck her sloppy cunt and cum inside her. Its amazing. She has told me sometimes she'll play with one of her vribrators with the sleeve on it while she's alone too. Which is gets me hard just thinking about it.

I think I want to see her fuck the real thing, but I'm not sure yet. I am, but I don't want others to know about it. I'm not into being humiliated or anything like that, just want to watch her pussy be destroyed by a BBC, at least once. I also don't want her to tell her friends, especially the neighbor's wife, who's husband happens to be my boss at work in a way. But I know she would tell her, even if I just told her about my fantasy, she would share it with her. And I cannot afford that info getting around at work. So you think she secretly wants BBC based of this? Should I move forward? How can I and keep it completely secret? I am New here, but I am not fake, or trolling in Any way I just want advice on my situation. Any advice is welcomed.
 
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CuriousSomeone said:
Any way I just want advice on my situation.
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You actually have a few things going for you here ... she likes 'large' and lets you know it, and she likes masturbating on her own with her toys, she looks at porn with you.
You also have a few things against you ... she's a wife & mom "1st" and doesn't want that threatened, you're in the infancy of your marriage, and you say she's conservative minded. And lastly, you say you're NOT SURE ... that alone is a killer if she knows you're not sure, because she's not going to ruin her marriage over what you "think" you want but not sure if you do.
Have the 2 of you ever included someone else in your sex play? You said she's never been with black ... has she been with anyone other than you since being married?
Here's the thing ... she likes BIG, and you're not BIG ... you're average at best. Second, remember the song "There's nothing like the real thing, baby" ... that's a fact.
I've always felt that knowing & giving a woman what she likes, eventually gets you what you like. I like top shelf "tequila" ... it tends to deaden the reluctance in sharing deep, personal information like sexual fantasies. A couple well made margaritas or pina coladas will help her relax and open up as to what she really really desires, sexually ... then give it to her. She'll be a lot less resistant in fulfilling your fantasy if you do.
Good luck ... and do some soul searching ... you can't convince her IF you haven't convinced yourself.
Mac
 
MacNfries said:
You actually have a few things going for you here ... she likes 'large' and lets you know it, and she likes masturbating on her own with her toys, she looks at porn with you.
You also have a few things against you ... she's a wife & mom "1st" and doesn't want that threatened, you're in the infancy of your marriage, and you say she's conservative minded. And lastly, you say you're NOT SURE ... that alone is a killer if she knows you're not sure, because she's not going to ruin her marriage over what you "think" you want but not sure if you do.
Have the 2 of you ever included someone else in your sex play? You said she's never been with black ... has she been with anyone other than you since being married?
Here's the thing ... she likes BIG, and you're not BIG ... you're average at best. Second, remember the song "There's nothing like the real thing, baby" ... that's a fact.
I've always felt knowing & giving her what she likes, eventually gets you what you like. I like "tequila" ... it tends to deaden the reluctance in sharing deep, personal information like sexual fantasies. A couple well made margaritas or pina coladas will help her relax and open up what she really really wants ... then give it to her. She'll be a lot less resistant in fulfilling your fantasy if you do.
Good luck ... and do some soul searching ... you can't convince her IF you haven't convinced yourself.
Mac
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Thanks for the info, especially the tequila! That has seemed to,do the trick in the past. And by all means I would have
MacNfries said:
You actually have a few things going for you here ... she likes 'large' and lets you know it, and she likes masturbating on her own with her toys, she looks at porn with you.
You also have a few things against you ... she's a wife & mom "1st" and doesn't want that threatened, you're in the infancy of your marriage, and you say she's conservative minded. And lastly, you say you're NOT SURE ... that alone is a killer if she knows you're not sure, because she's not going to ruin her marriage over what you "think" you want but not sure if you do.
Have the 2 of you ever included someone else in your sex play? You said she's never been with black ... has she been with anyone other than you since being married?
Here's the thing ... she likes BIG, and you're not BIG ... you're average at best. Second, remember the song "There's nothing like the real thing, baby" ... that's a fact.
I've always felt that knowing & giving a woman what she likes, eventually gets you what you like. I like top shelf "tequila" ... it tends to deaden the reluctance in sharing deep, personal information like sexual fantasies. A couple well made margaritas or pina coladas will help her relax and open up as to what she really really desires, sexually ... then give it to her. She'll be a lot less resistant in fulfilling your fantasy if you do.
Good luck ... and do some soul searching ... you can't convince her IF you haven't convinced yourself.
Mac
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no,issues with it... Only other people knowing is the part that worries me. Never had any one else either, I've shared a three some idea before mfm, she thinks it's a ploy to get a fmf three some though.
 
CuriousSomeone said:
other people knowing is the part that worries me.
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This part I don't quite understand. The one thing the 2 of you should share is "confidentiality" ... she's just as likely as you to get hurt if rumors float around that she's fucking other men, especially with the 2 of you with little ******* in the home. So, it should be something confidential between the 2 of you UNLESS her friend is also being shared by her husband. Trust is a big deal in marriage ... you've got to have it, period. Especially once she does it a few times and becomes comfortable doing it ... you want to know you can trust her to keep everything on the table. Some of the guys she sees are going to want to have private weekends and time with her ... they could care less of your marriage or your family. Trust is very important that she play by the rules the 2 of you set.
 
MacNfries said:
This part I don't quite understand. The one thing the 2 of you should share is "confidentiality" ... she's just as likely as you to get hurt if rumors float around that she's fucking other men, especially with the 2 of you with little ******* in the home. So, it should be something confidential between the 2 of you UNLESS her friend is also being shared by her husband. Trust is a big deal in marriage ... you've got to have it, period. Especially once she does it a few times and becomes comfortable doing it ... you want to know you can trust her to keep everything on the table. Some of the guys she sees are going to want to have private weekends and time with her ... they could care less of your marriage or your family. Trust is very important that she play by the rules the 2 of you set.
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Good Point. Rules.
I just feel like girls talk, regardless of husbands, and that expriencing something great like that she would want to tell her best friend
 
CuriousSomeone said:
Good Point. Rules.
I just feel like girls talk, regardless of husbands, and that expriencing something great like that she would want to tell her best friend
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Nope ... not THIS ... not if she loves you and cares for her marriage, which it sounds like she does. She tends to lose as much as you. Maybe the 2 of you should visit an adult lifestyle club on hospitality night ... puts you in front of people with similar interests and everyones clothed ... sort of a meet & greet. See if you get jealous if some guy puts his hands on your wife or dances with her ... but as Jewbaka said ... go slow. Half the fun of a destination is the trip in between ... you're young and got loads of time ahead of you. Have fun with each other. Good luck.
 
MacNfries said:
Nope ... not THIS ... not if she loves you and cares for her marriage, which it sounds like she does. She tends to lose as much as you. Maybe the 2 of you should visit an adult lifestyle club on hospitality night ... puts you in front of people with similar interests and everyones clothed ... sort of a meet & greet. See if you get jealous if some guy puts his hands on your wife or dances with her ... but as Jewbaka said ... go slow. Half the fun of a destination is the trip in between ... you're young and got loads of time ahead of you. Have fun with each other. Good luck.
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I guess you do have a point, it is a pretty big deal
 
Progress made. Last night I suggested we watch porn together, of course led her to female choice section after watching several different kinds and nothing that both of us liked, many women faking it, I suggested we just watch one of the IR ones, I joked that we should to see why there was so much IR in this section. I clicked on a blacked.com one because I know they kind of have an erotic appeal to them. We start watching it, and she gets soaked and can't take he eyes off the screen with a brunette both of us had said is similar to her. It ends, she picks another one just the same, then she asks for me to fuck her while we watch it. We do, she's glued to the screen still. Then we take a break, she finds another one just the same, blacked one, with a huge bbc splitting a tiny white pussy. The story line was a cheating wife who's husband didn't satisfy her anymore. She comments how the girl is REALLY pretty. I get the sleeve out, the black mamba the is 7in long and 8 in wide... Normally I have to live it pretty well to get it starts but It slides in like a knife through butter. She's wetter than normal and her pussy is looser than normal too. I turn her around to doggy so she can watch the video better while I'm ramming this thing in hard. She begs to fuck her harder, her pussy is swallowing this entire thing with each thrust. I tell her to tell me what she likes, she says "I love your big cock". I smack her ass, "big WHAT cock?" I said. "I love your big black cock!". "Say it again!" I demanded. She screamed it again, she's backing up hard into my fuck with the sleeve on it. When we get done, there is a mixture of *******, sweat, and cum all over the bed. She was so embarrassed and surprised that she was ******* as it is no where near that time of month. I asked her what she thinks it's from and she said "well you did stretch me out pretty far, that's the hardest we've ever fucked". We replace the sheets and lay down.

As we lie in bed afterward I ask her if she liked it. She said she feels dirty watching porn and especially black on white porn. She said she's not really into black guys, but she like the blacked.com ones because they have a story and are erotic. We talked about how hot all the girls were and how the contrast was sexy. She did admit that She liked how big their Vicks were. She also made a comment "most of those black on white ones were of wives" Then we talked about fantasies, she still thinks my fantasy of sharing her is weird and doesn't want to. But then asked questions as to how it would work, etc. She wants to do it again soon. Needless to say, i think she's thinking about it. Now I wonder if she's watching ir porn without me lol

Moving forward, I guess I'll just keep pushing the ir porn and the black sleeve and try to associate those two things together more. Maybe we will do some role play to get it going. I'm in the market for a bigger sleeve too. Any suggestions?
 
Update: I've left the subject of her fucking another man alone for a quite a while now. Letting it brew. She watches porn regularly but not ir porn via search history. She asked me every once in a while "are you serious about wanting me to do someone else?" And I just play it off like it would be a fun experience, like watching live porn with my favorite actress, her. Just a couple of days ago she found my tumblr account witch is used for nothing but it porn and has strong themes of cuckolding and chastity. She wasn't upset about it at all, she just asked "so whats tumblr it was pulled up on your phone and I know you watch porn on it"...remember it's nothing but ir porn,cuckolding,and chastity. She tells me all the time she doesn't mind if I watch porn. I didn't admit to the fantasy right then...but I assume if she was turned off by it she would've said something about the 'weird stuff on there at the same time. So shes gotta know exactly what I'm into now... waiting to see what's next to come. Any suggestions anyone?
 
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