Because my hubby is bi, I often ask the men I have sex with if they would allow my hubby to suck them, either before or after they fuck me. Some guys are okay with it. Other men aren't. I actually like watching my hubby enjoying another man.
I have been fortunate to see my hubby taken, anally, by other men. To see him crying because he is so happy has made me feel like I had given him the best gift in the world. I know he loves watching me with other men, but I also know he loves being taken, as well.
Since few black men I know or have met are into doing other guys, I like it when my hubby and my brother in-law get together. My hubby and my brother in-law both have smaller cocks, but my hubby seems to like my brother in-law's cock. I will admit that my brother in-law is very thick. And he is longer than my hubby is. And he's not a bad lover either.
My hubby works at a gay bath house part time. This is the perfect part time job for him. I have my men, and my hubby has the ability to be with other men as well. I think that a lot of white men want to be with other men. And from what my hubby has told me, when a black man shows up at the bath house it is like when a black man shows up at the swinger motel or the swinger clubs . . . everyone wants to have sex with them.