Looking for first time.

Welcum to the Darke Side! If you're for real, your fiancee will soon be please, and you for her, enjoying some of the fine men on her. Always, take it easy; get to know the person that shows interest for genuiness and to avoid unpleasant surprises. It might also be a good idea to talk to other experienced couples for recommendations. Good luck!
 
Okay. Now you've nailed it. You are here for texting messages. No prob, that can be fun too. ;)

Good luck.
Not sure what your issue is, but clearly you misunderstood. We don’t want everyone knowing where we are or wasting our time with petty replies and nonsense for people who aren’t serious. For example your original message. Thanks :)
 
Welcum to the Darke Side! If you're for real, your fiancee will soon be please, and you for her, enjoying some of the fine men on her. Always, take it easy; get to know the person that shows interest for genuiness and to avoid unpleasant surprises. It might also be a good idea to talk to other experienced couples for recommendations. Good luck!
Thank you for the advice :)
 
Not sure what your issue is, but clearly you misunderstood. (...)
You misunderstood. i don't have an issue at all. :)
(...)We don’t want everyone knowing where we are (...)
But that's the whole point if you want to have real meetings.

If you are concerned about your privacy, which is legit and wise, don't post anything that could identify you (like pictures showing face, phone numbers, etc.)

When i say provide your location info i don't mean your address! i am talking about a greater area where you are living or where you want to meet. That's not info that could do any harm but help you find potential players more easily. ;)
(...)or wasting our time with petty replies and nonsense for people who aren’t serious. (...)
Exactly my point. Without your location shown you will be contacted by arbitrary people perhaps living on the other side of the planet with no real chance of a meeting. Ever.

If you are really looking for the first time in the lifestyle IRL, provide your location on your profile and look for that info on the profiles of those people who contact you. That will save you a lot of useless writing back and forth with those who are not potential partners for your desired get-together. While others who are living near you will not contact you because they don't even know. :(

There are many threads about "fakes" on these forums recently that show that Black men who are for real have become cautious and will, when in doubt, consider you a fake rather than a legit person/couple. So if you are indeed for real then act like that! Also consider verification. It is done easily (see the instructions here) and will increase your chances.

BTW no need to complain about my postings. i am just trying to be helpful. ;)

Good luck!
 
You misunderstood. i don't have an issue at all. :)
But that's the whole point if you want to have real meetings.

If you are concerned about your privacy, which is legit and wise, don't post anything that could identify you (like pictures showing face, phone numbers, etc.)

When i say provide your location info i don't mean your address! i am talking about a greater area where you are living or where you want to meet. That's not info that could do any harm but help you find potential players more easily. ;)
Exactly my point. Without your location shown you will be contacted by arbitrary people perhaps living on the other side of the planet with no real chance of a meeting. Ever.

If you are really looking for the first time in the lifestyle IRL, provide your location on your profile and look for that info on the profiles of those people who contact you. That will save you a lot of useless writing back and forth with those who are not potential partners for your desired get-together. While others who are living near you will not contact you because they don't even know. :(

There are many threads about "fakes" on these forums recently that show that Black men who are for real have become cautious and will, when in doubt, consider you a fake rather than a legit person/couple. So if you are indeed for real then act like that! Also consider verification. It is done easily (see the instructions here) and will increase your chances.

BTW no need to complain about my postings. i am just trying to be helpful. ;)

Good luck!
Thanks for the advice. We plan to get verified this week.
 
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