Ladies, who's idea was it, to get into this lifestyle?

[big9indic]

My apologies if this post is redundant. Most of the posts and threads on the site, it's the male that introduces the wife to this lifestyle. But let's hear the truth from
you ladies! Who's idea was it to get into this lifestyle? Yours or your partner's? Perhaps a friend or other family member?

 

[hotwifecouple78]

My apologies if this post is redundant. View attachment 925236 View attachment 925237 View attachment 925238 Most of the posts and threads on the site, it's the male that introduces the wife to this lifestyle. But let's hear the truth from
you ladies! Who's idea was it to get into this lifestyle? Yours or your partner's? Perhaps a friend or other family member?

Well what you have seen on many other posts and threads is true. In most cases it is the husband who initially desires the couple to get into the hotwife or cuckold lifestyle. As much as many men on here love the idea and fantasy of a wife just not being able to help herself and wanting to have sex with other men, the reality is usually starts with the husband based on his fantasies and sexual excitement....most wives are just not wired that way to want to go out and have sex with other men. Many wives do it initially to please their husband and for the couple's relationship. Of those wives who actually consider it, some are not interested in it and some end up enjoying it. For many, it helps to enhance the sex life of the couple and they enjoy doing it together. In our case, it was definitely my husband who brought up the idea and after discussing it and roleplaying it for several years, we both decided to do it for real once we thought we were ready to try it. Once we did it, we realized it was not that big of a deal and it was just sex. We continue to do it to enhance our own sex life and enjoy doing it together s a couple and find it fun and exciting. We do it for each other, and not for anyone else.

 

[Kirs10]

As upstanding white women, we take the high road letting our husbands/ boyfriends think it's their idea of getting into the BBC lifestyle. We ladies have the power to control men's minds because it's simple. Guys don't have enough ******* to feed to heads at once. Let them think it's their idea. We win in the end. And how!

 

[Mrsjtkirk52]

Well what you have seen on many other posts and threads is true. In most cases it is the husband who initially desires the couple to get into the hotwife or cuckold lifestyle. As much as many men on here love the idea and fantasy of a wife just not being able to help herself and wanting to have sex with other men, the reality is usually starts with the husband based on his fantasies and sexual excitement....most wives are just not wired that way to want to go out and have sex with other men. Many wives do it initially to please their husband and for the couple's relationship. Of those wives who actually consider it, some are not interested in it and some end up enjoying it. For many, it helps to enhance the sex life of the couple and they enjoy doing it together. In our case, it was definitely my husband who brought up the idea and after discussing it and roleplaying it for several years, we both decided to do it for real once we thought we were ready to try it. Once we did it, we realized it was not that big of a deal and it was just sex. We continue to do it to enhance our own sex life and enjoy doing it together s a couple and find it fun and exciting. We do it for each other, and not for anyone else.

Very well said babe

 

[WhiteHubby30]

for us, it was my wife who got us started in this lifestyle
first one of her best friends tried BBC....then her other best friend
Soon she was dropping hints to me along the lines of what I thought about the fact that BOTH her best friends are dating blk guys....then she was asking me if I have ever thought about HER being with a blk man
Next thing I knew she was getting me to watch IR porn with her in bed at night....blk on Asian porn
we watched together and I swear she would get so hot....grab my hand and put it on her pussy so I could feel how wet she was getting just from watching those big blk dicks
finally, her friends started talking to us about how they have this blk guy they want Monica to meet
That's when the whole discussion began.....I resisted the idea at first, but eventually gave in to her blk desires

 

[bostonbean]

i got into.the fanticy young, i got caught with certain toys, and I just came clean. he was nervious hesatant, we talked googled and landed here.

 

[zvega]

with an ex-girlfriend years ago it began with my IR fantasies. The fantasies got us both hot when we fucked. Then an opportunity presented itself to her in the form of a black co-worker. I told her I was fine with anything that may happen, and something did, and she had a black lover in her life for a few months

 

[big9indic]

Well what you have seen on many other posts and threads is true. In most cases it is the husband who initially desires the couple to get into the hotwife or cuckold lifestyle. As much as many men on here love the idea and fantasy of a wife just not being able to help herself and wanting to have sex with other men, the reality is usually starts with the husband based on his fantasies and sexual excitement....most wives are just not wired that way to want to go out and have sex with other men. Many wives do it initially to please their husband and for the couple's relationship. Of those wives who actually consider it, some are not interested in it and some end up enjoying it. For many, it helps to enhance the sex life of the couple and they enjoy doing it together. In our case, it was definitely my husband who brought up the idea and after discussing it and roleplaying it for several years, we both decided to do it for real once we thought we were ready to try it. Once we did it, we realized it was not that big of a deal and it was just sex. We continue to do it to enhance our own sex life and enjoy doing it together s a couple and find it fun and exciting. We do it for each other, and not for anyone else.

Thanks for your insight and comments. Very well said

 

[big9indic]

i got into.the fanticy young, i got caught with certain toys, and I just came clean. he was nervious hesatant, we talked googled and landed here.

And I for one, am glad you came clean and landed here as well!

 

[hotwifecouple78]

Thanks for your insight and comments. Very well said

You're welcome and thank you. I just try to bring some reality to the many threads on here when so many comments are obviously fantasy by a lot of men lol.

 

[gregnginger]

Its something that he talked about and so I started to look into it and we talked but now that I want to do it he is not at all wanting me to.

 

[hotwifecouple78]

Its something that he talked about and so I started to look into it and we talked but now that I want to do it he is not at all wanting me to.

Then if your husband doesn't want you to do it, why would you? Isn't your marriage more important to you than having sex with other men?

 

[gregnginger]

Then if your husband doesn't want you to do it, why would you? Isn't your marriage more important to you than having sex with other men?

I don't know, we haven't been intimate in a while now so I haven't done it yet and I don't know what I will do.

 

[alice barker]

Although we're not married, we are real couple, and I, Alice, and before I met him, I liked having sex with others. We love each other but give us freedom, because one thing is love and other sex for pleasure without compromise.

I am not a female one male, I like to try and change lover, and among them, the black, for me, are the best.

Life is short, and we have to enjoy every moment, I do love sex, and I do it whenever I can. In addition to being fucked by several males at the same time, there is only one possibility, do it outside the couple, and that drives me crazy.

They say that good girls go to heaven, and that bad or naughty, they go everywhere, lol, I decided on the latter, to not miss a single new and exciting new experience. It is for that reason, a good reason

 

[big9indic]

I don't know, we haven't been intimate in a while now so I haven't done it yet and I don't know what I will do.[/QUOTE

First, thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Secondly, have you tried talking to your hubby about your concerns? He was originally open with you regarding his fantasies and desires, why can't you do the same? Regardless of whether you participate in this lifestyle or not, don't you think he, & yourself deserve that much?

 

[big9indic]

Although we're not married, we are real couple, and I, Alice, and before I met him, I liked having sex with others. We love each other but give us freedom, because one thing is love and other sex for pleasure without compromise.

I am not a female one male, I like to try and change lover, and among them, the black, for me, are the best.

Life is short, and we have to enjoy every moment, I do love sex, and I do it whenever I can. In addition to being fucked by several males at the same time, there is only one possibility, do it outside the couple, and that drives me crazy.

They say that good girls go to heaven, and that bad or naughty, they go everywhere, lol, I decided on the latter, to not miss a single new and exciting new experience. It is for that reason, a good reason

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Mmmm! Luscious body and awesome ass!
Thanks for letting us peek!

 

[Jay123]

Hubby for sure.
I would have never even dreamed of it.

 

[LeeandJen]

Hubby, but do you want to know who benefits the most? Jen