I have told her my fantasy, and she thinks I am crazy for wanting that. She doesn't understand how an otherwise manly man like me would want to see his wife in the arms of a lover, and she doesn't think anyone else would be interested in her.
.....Tim, you say you want to "share her" ... are you specifically referring with black men, or with other men, in general? Your profile and past posts don't indicate if she's
ever been shared with any other man. So, you're really addressing 2 distinct situations here ... asking her to have sex with another man, AND, asking her to have sex with a black man. What is her position on interracial sex, do you know? Has your fantasy play taken you that far?
.....This is more than just a fantasy fulfillment for her ... she takes
all the risks doing it. If she's a happily married spouse, she also risks possibly damaging her marriage doing this, as you don't really know how either of you will eventually respond to her being with other men ... maybe you think you do, but you really don't until it happens. The biggest consideration, or should be, is the risk you expose your 5 children to IF your marriage gets damaged over this. Congratulations by the way with 5 ******* ... wow ... 2 children were all my wife & I desired.
.....At any rate, I'm not trying to discourage you, but
encourage you to consider all the risks associated with this activity. The marriage bond is often more delicate than we imagine. She's a beautiful lady ... after 5 *******, I think she's exceptional, by the way. So, whatever you 2 do, do it together, set parameters, and keep the line of communication (feelings) open both ways. If it gets too much, both should be willing to pull the plug on doing it.
.....Best wishes ...
.....Mac
