Did your first hotwife encounter/date result in some type of sex?

  • YES

    Votes: 195 84.4%
  • NO

    Votes: 36 15.6%

  • Total voters
    231
My wife and I have a big age difference. Now she is 41 and I am 60. She is an amazing woman, beautiful and sexy. I have always been proud to have married her. At the very beginning of our relationship, I was struck by her frenzied sexual appetite. I associated it with her youth, and thought gradually she would cease to be so hot.

If earlier it pleased me, now I understand I can’t give my wife the sex she wants. About 5 years ago, we thought about some hot story and came across articles about hotwife.

This option was very suitable for our couple. I was ready to give my wife the green light for a hotwife date story. Realizing such a variety of married life is not done quickly, we discussed for a long time, read about hotwife going on date, watched videos, read advice on forums.

But we didn't know how to make it happen. I had no idea what the hotwife first date would be for us.

This hotwife idea turned my wife on even more, and I honestly couldn't cope with her satisfaction.

To understand how I would feel on hotwife first date, we decided to try a threesome with another man. The wife registered on one site where we posted her sex photos and various videos. A few times I even recorded short videos of our sex.

We got a great response to our story, which gave us the hotwife first date idea. Then on one specialized site we found a partner for sex. The date took place, and I participated in sex with pleasure, but less actively, in order to look at my wife with another man. I only had a hot blowjob from my wife, and I quickly finished. And this man fucked my wife.

I realized I like to look at her with another man. Then we started planning first hotwife story. I completely entrusted this to my wife. We registered on the site for a hotwife date. She chatted with the man for a long time, and they set a date. The wife began to prepare for the hotwife date story.

I booked a trip, a hotel room, in general, everything for a comfortable stay. But my plans at work changed, and I realized I would not be able to go with my wife to the first hotwife story on the appointed day.

Canceling this date is very costly and problematic. And I don't want to upset my wife either. It turns out hotwife goes on date alone. But I haven't told her yet. I am ready to let my wife go alone for first hotwife story. But I wonder if she can have sex with him without me, and will this date take place at all? Does it happen the first hotwife story takes place without sex?
 
I for one do not usually go on a first hot date alone but I have a few times when my husband was away in the military, most went well but a couple times I had to end it early not out of fear just the guy did not appeal to me. I guess I’ve been lucky never had anything bad happen but most of the time my man is with me for a few times before I will go alone with a man. I do like at times to be alone away from home with another man so I can really let myself go and be a real slutty hotwife for my male lover. I hope her date alone goes well for her and you get all the details when you return.
 
My wife and I have a big age difference. Now she is 41 and I am 60. She is an amazing woman, beautiful and sexy. I have always been proud to have married her. At the very beginning of our relationship, I was struck by her frenzied sexual appetite. I associated it with her youth, and thought gradually she would cease to be so hot.

If earlier it pleased me, now I understand I can’t give my wife the sex she wants. About 5 years ago, we thought about some hot story and came across articles about hotwife.

This option was very suitable for our couple. I was ready to give my wife the green light for a hotwife date story. Realizing such a variety of married life is not done quickly, we discussed for a long time, read about hotwife going on date, watched videos, read advice on forums.

But we didn't know how to make it happen. I had no idea what the hotwife first date would be for us.

This hotwife idea turned my wife on even more, and I honestly couldn't cope with her satisfaction.

To understand how I would feel on hotwife first date, we decided to try a threesome with another man. The wife registered on one site where we posted her sex photos and various videos. A few times I even recorded short videos of our sex.

We got a great response to our story, which gave us the hotwife first date idea. Then on one specialized site we found a partner for sex. The date took place, and I participated in sex with pleasure, but less actively, in order to look at my wife with another man. I only had a hot blowjob from my wife, and I quickly finished. And this man fucked my wife.

I realized I like to look at her with another man. Then we started planning first hotwife story. I completely entrusted this to my wife. We registered on the site for a hotwife date. She chatted with the man for a long time, and they set a date. The wife began to prepare for the hotwife date story.

I booked a trip, a hotel room, in general, everything for a comfortable stay. But my plans at work changed, and I realized I would not be able to go with my wife to the first hotwife story on the appointed day.

Canceling this date is very costly and problematic. And I don't want to upset my wife either. It turns out hotwife goes on date alone. But I haven't told her yet. I am ready to let my wife go alone for first hotwife story. But I wonder if she can have sex with him without me, and will this date take place at all? Does it happen the first hotwife story takes place without sex?
Sometimes it all depends on the vibe! How you make her feel, what she feels like doing, and the way you set the tone before the date!
 
I will admit we are old school....but ask yourself what is at risk here and what priority do you place on it? The money you would lose by not going on the trip or your wife's safety?
My wife and I vett a person and meet with him a minimum of three times before getting busy with the bull. The amount of time it takes is of no consequence as far as my wife's safety is involved. We want to invest the time it takes to vett a person in hopes that we can establish a longer term relationship. It has been very rewarding thus far.
 
I let my wife have a hotwife first date without my presence. But only because she had been in contact with this man for a long time and was familiar with him.

They occasionally crossed paths at work. And then when we came to life as a hotwife, it was the first man the wife named who she wanted to have sex with in hotwife first date. They began to correspond often and had nice conversations. He knew that she was married. Then they began to exchange sex photos, sexting.

My wife and I had an agreement that she would meet with him. I asked her if the hotwife date story with this man would affect their work and business relationships. She said no, that they sometimes interact, and this will not affect her image. The man was free.

According to his messages, I understood he wanted to fuck my wife. But when we agreed with her about the first hotwife story, we decided not to dedicate it to all the nuances of our sex life.

I was on a business trip on the first day when my hotwife going on date. We discussed this point immediately. I also asked her to take some sex photos, no detailed videos, because I like that.

I told her that a detailed story of her hotwife first date was all I needed. That evening she texted me a couple of photos, and I knew everything was fine.

I returned from a business trip the next day. She told me about her sex adventure on the first hotwife date story, which turned me on incredibly. She also brought me panties from as proof. That night we fucked for several hours and fell asleep only in the morning. Therefore, I do not regret I did not attend her first hotwife story.
 
Well we chatted a bit on the phone and when we met for drinks my husband was there.

So the two of them talked for a few minutes while I had a ******* and then he sat next to me not my husband. As he sat next to me he just started talking asking what I was looking for, how my day was going and what sort of things I’d like to do or have done to me when I’m with someone other than my husband

it helpEd break the ice and help me relaxed as he started talking about me and about how he was here to make me feel better and more relaxed.

And then I noticed his hand on my leg. He smiled and his hand moved up my leg and it was wonderful and the next thing I know I’m in a hotel room.
 
Well we chatted a bit on the phone and when we met for drinks my husband was there.

So the two of them talked for a few minutes while I had a ******* and then he sat next to me not my husband. As he sat next to me he just started talking asking what I was looking for, how my day was going and what sort of things I’d like to do or have done to me when I’m with someone other than my husband

it helpEd break the ice and help me relaxed as he started talking about me and about how he was here to make me feel better and more relaxed.

And then I noticed his hand on my leg. He smiled and his hand moved up my leg and it was wonderful and the next thing I know I’m in a hotel room.
How did it go int he hotel room? Was your husband still there?
 
There have been only 2 times that I haven’t fucked on the first date. We are people so we have turn offs too. Our first BBC date was a perfect experience! Met him in the hotel bar alone. Hubby told me he’d come down in 15 minutes and to unbutton my top buttons if I wanted to play. I was so nervous I forgot! I saw hubby walk by our table and I quickly fumbled around to unbutton my shirt. The rest, as they say, is history. One time, I did meet a guy for introductory drinks with no play that night…it was kind of awkward. I mean, he knows why I am there…and I know why he is there…so small talk felt ******. We played the next weekend. For me/us, I want to get fucked on the first date. I have standards, but if you meet those I’m very easy! XOXO💋
 
I will admit we are old school....but ask yourself what is at risk here and what priority do you place on it? The money you would lose by not going on the trip or your wife's safety?
My wife and I vett a person and meet with him a minimum of three times before getting busy with the bull. The amount of time it takes is of no consequence as far as my wife's safety is involved. We want to invest the time it takes to vett a person in hopes that we can establish a longer term relationship. It has been very rewarding thus far.
Same here! ... I've only had 2 BBC Bulls in my 7 years of being in the lifestyle. We vet him together and I meet him for dr1nks in a public place, a couple of times before a true play date involving a hotel room.
We are upfront from the start that we're looking for a long term relationship. If anyone is looking for a "bang & go" we politely cut them loose. Yeah, some of their posted pics do get me excited but I know what I want, and safety is important.
I'm seeing my current Bull for about the past 3 years and it is working out just perfectly. We're close and a true "friend with benefits" and my hubby supports me unconditionally.
 
My wife started in college, and they didn’t technically date. She had a friend who she would go out with him and other friends and there was clearly chemistry there between them. It took a solid month of him being direct for them to finally hook up.
 
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