I feel like we are there. Just don’t know where to go now. Looking for females insight.

deepseathree

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My wife and o have been exploring all types of kinks together in the bedroom for years now. The one that has stuck out the most has been hotwife/cuck/bbc based.

We’ve been watching interracial porn for years now. We’ve bought black sleeves and dildos. Lots of dirty talk. In and out of the bedroom. She’ll make jokes out of the bedroom with references to bbc or black men and as will I. In regards to porn, she doesn’t like watching white guys, not in the sense of disgust, but that they don’t do anything for her. She’s also recently admitted to finding black men more attractive.

We’ve tried a chastity cage before and she wasn’t a fan. I bought another recently and she loved the idea of it. I wore it while she watched porn and I ate her out. She unlocked me and had me jackoff and locked me back up. I don’t know how I feel about the chastity fully as I consider myself a switch and that may be too sub for my liking. I’m also not small by any means so it’s not the most comfortable. But I find the play with her a turn on.

I also talked with her about wearing a QOS anklet/bracelet and she said she’d do it. She says she’s doing it more for me than anything else, but I think she likes the idea of being potentially hit on.

Anyway, we’ve discussed attending different events, or meetings, but have never fully committed. She says she doesn’t know if she’s ready to sleep with someone else yet. Which I’m not going to push as this is something together. I feel she wants more, but is just worried about how I’ll feel.
 
My wife and o have been exploring all types of kinks together in the bedroom for years now. The one that has stuck out the most has been hotwife/cuck/bbc based.

We’ve been watching interracial porn for years now. We’ve bought black sleeves and dildos. Lots of dirty talk. In and out of the bedroom. She’ll make jokes out of the bedroom with references to bbc or black men and as will I. In regards to porn, she doesn’t like watching white guys, not in the sense of disgust, but that they don’t do anything for her. She’s also recently admitted to finding black men more attractive.

We’ve tried a chastity cage before and she wasn’t a fan. I bought another recently and she loved the idea of it. I wore it while she watched porn and I ate her out. She unlocked me and had me jackoff and locked me back up. I don’t know how I feel about the chastity fully as I consider myself a switch and that may be too sub for my liking. I’m also not small by any means so it’s not the most comfortable. But I find the play with her a turn on.

I also talked with her about wearing a QOS anklet/bracelet and she said she’d do it. She says she’s doing it more for me than anything else, but I think she likes the idea of being potentially hit on.

Anyway, we’ve discussed attending different events, or meetings, but have never fully committed. She says she doesn’t know if she’s ready to sleep with someone else yet. Which I’m not going to push as this is something together. I feel she wants more, but is just worried about how I’ll feel.
Sounds like your both having fun and enjoy the naughty games and that is great to hear! It does seem like the next step would be sleeping with someone else either in a threesome or her alone but if she is not ready then best not to push it and have everything go badly. Keep playing and enjoying what you do have and what you have discovered you enjoy together!
 
Just have to wait for the right time so you don't end up taking a step back and honestly depending on your wife that might be never. She sounds like she is into all of it but maybe she just enjoys the game with you in the bedroom. Don't push though as that never tends to work well.
 
(...) She says she doesn’t know if she’s ready to sleep with someone else yet. Which I’m not going to push (...)
What exactly did she say? If she truly said she "does not know if ..." then it is not a "No." It may well be a hint that she is hoping for more active or more doubtless support from her husband to make her truly feel comfortable with making it real. - Not for the hubby to be pushy of course. ;)
 
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