How to politely reject a couple/single after they initially contact you?

programmed2plz

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Evening everyone,

Hope all is well. Initially, when couples that I'm not sexually attracted to reach out to me, I usually ignore the message. However, I find it impolite if I don't reply back and I know that feeling as well when I reach out to a couple or single woman and I don't get a response.

Now, I simply say, "Thank you for reaching out and I appreciate the interest but I have to decline. All the best!". Not a "maybe", or "next time" to lead a couple or a woman on. Everyone knows what they're sexually attracted to and your standards should be set and rigid.

I'm just curious as to what do others do in this particular situation.
 
I think your wording is great and I might steal it 😂

I try to set my expectations from the minute someone initiates conversation. If they don't have face/body/package pics, they've got to send them. We require our play partners to be verified. I will send the link and whether they follow through with those conditions is up to them.(no one has ever actually gotten verified and they poof so....) I'm *this close* to not even responding to the unverified anymore honestly. -M
 
I think your wording is great and I might steal it 😂

I try to set my expectations from the minute someone initiates conversation. If they don't have face/body/package pics, they've got to send them. We require our play partners to be verified. I will send the link and whether they follow through with those conditions is up to them.(no one has ever actually gotten verified and they poof so....) I'm *this close* to not even responding to the unverified anymore honestly. -M
You can definitely use mine!

I agree with you in terms of expectations from the beginning along with verified/real people. I reject couples that just want to collect pics in order to not meet in real life and unverified users.
 
Our standard reply to folks that we are not attracted to or have another concern with them:

Thank you for your interest and note, but we will politely say no thank you and wish you lots of fun in all of your sexy adventures.
 
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