How can I convince my GF who's been cheated on in the past?

[Brad12345]

Hey cuckold community!

If you've seen my posts before you'll know that I'm getting close with my GF to making this fantasy a reality! We love to roleplay Cuckold stuff in bed and i've encouraged her to start talking to other men which she seems keen on

She's naturally a very outgoing and dominant woman with a rich sexual history so the role of a cuckoldress would fit her like a glove.

Although, in saying this she still has reservations about going all the way because of some of her past relationship trauma, she had a dick boyfriend in the past who cheated multiple times on her and left her with a poor taste in her mouth when it comes to the thought of non-monogamy.

I'm just wondering if anyone has had to overcome a similar hurdle to make their cuckold relationship a reality with their partner?

Any help would be massively appreciated

 

[kyasianhotwife]

To prevent her thoughts of non-monogamy, don't frame the fantasy and experience as cuckoldry. Introduce it as a MMF threesome type fantasy so the experience involves both of you and feels more like you two as a couple bringing in a third person for fun. Tell her you have no interest in MFF because you're only hot for her so she doesn't feel like going thru with a MMF encounter opens the door to other women (still monogamous).
When it happens, start things up by joining in like a typical threesome then eventually fade back and let her and her bull get some 1-on-1 action to make her comfortable with the dynamic. Afterwards tell her how hot it was, how sexy she looked, etc and reclaim her sexually. Push for a follow up 2nd encounter soon after and this time video tape but never actually join in. If this goes smoothly and she's obviously comfortable with him then suggest something new - say you want her to surprise you with a video, kind of a kinky couples gift - be persistent so she knows you're serious and make it abundantly clear that you want it to be a surprise which means she'll have to make plans herself with your bull and arrange things at a time when you're not around. Once she moves forward with it you'll have casually setup an hotwife/cuckold dynamic without triggering her "non-monogamy" fears.