Help encouraging wife...

Afternoon all.

Let me start off by saying I am not looking to manipulate or ******* my partner into anything and the topic/question I am about to raise has been discussed openly and honestly between us many times.

Quick background - We're a couple in our early 40s, married for 5 years, together for 15.

Within the last few years I discovered interracial porn and it quickly became my favourite genre. Through that I learned about cuckold, chastity play and all the other wonderful kinks that go with it. I've approached my wife many times and she's indulged nearly everything I've asked of her. BBC dildos, a cage, enjoying some porn together on occasion to mention a few.

Now, recently she began chatting online (innocently at first through facebook) with a few Arab gentleman. The conversation took a turn for the kinky and I told her to enjoy it. A bit of harmless sexting never hurt anyone. I don't get jealous and love the fact that other men find my wife attractive. At the end of the day, it's my face she's sitting on.

She came to confess that Arab/Italian men are a niche that she enjoys, whereas I favour her with BBC. Not an issue, the underlying fantasy of her with other men remains the same, regardless of colour.

I've told her to continue chatting, encouraged her to send pics if she wants to. My question is, what can I do to encourage her further? I would like to see her embrace her sexuality more, do whatever feels good. I'm not telling her to go book hotel rooms. But at this point, as a fantasy we can share.

What would you do?

Thanks
 
Hi! I guess you are both aleeady at a good point , she even expressed her preferred type. Next step can be encouraging her to share photos, maybe in bikini or lingerie. Then you can try to take for her some nudes for your own , in a second moment ask her to share with the guys she is sexting with. Trust me once she send her own nudes to another man your fantasy will become true in few time..
 
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