Wanted to introduce myself. 32 year old male from Pittsburgh area and I have recently been very interested/excited in the idea of seeing my wife with other men, specifically black men. Or even the idea of her having an affair with a black man behind my back and me secretly watching or hearing the stories about her with him. We have been married for 2 years but have been together since college. She is 29 and in great shape, She has no idea about this fantasy of mine and I'm not sure how to bring it up or how to make it happen naturally. Would appreciate any insight from others in a similiar position or any advice from people in the lifestyle.