For those women who hesitated at first

[Pegramguy]

My girlfriend has jumped on the wagon but isn't diving in head first. It was a very slow process to get to this point but not as slow as it could have been. All in all it's been ok but I was curious as to how it went with other couples?

Is there a honeymoon period after the first time or two that she let it soak all in before diving in head first or did she continue to take it slow baby steps.

I feel we are at a good spot. I have gotten her to admit she needs more dick than I give her and that she needs a big hung black cock. She has tried it previously and plays with the notion of having a regular and doing it regularly but just hasn't had much enthusiasm and embraced it yet.

I am hoping some other couples went through the same thing before the wife/girlfriend really embraced black cock fucking her pussy and eventually submit to their desires to get fucked regularly in front of their husband/boyfriends.

 

[MacNfries]

Pegramguy ... its always beneficial to find out what her "mental objections" are to moving forward with your desire. Until you satisfy those objections (and mental objections are often hard to uncover because they're not volunteered) she's probably going to continue her reluctance. You want this new bbc activity to be a luxury to your own relationship; you don't want her to pursue other cock because you're not fulfilling her needs as that's a game changer. Usually, the reason a wife or GF show reluctance is because they value the current relationship and are afraid it will damage it. But, that's for you to find out ... you might wish to do a research on "uncovering objections" ... there's a ton of info about it on the internet, and how to uncover them. Good luck ... Mac

 

[willsrvu]

Along with what Mac said, I wonder if the way you stated this:

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I am hoping some other couples went through the same thing before the wife/girlfriend really embraced black cock fucking her pussy and eventually submit to their desires to get fucked regularly in front of their husband/boyfriends.

... has anything to do with it?

If all you want to do is sit back and watch her get fucked, it is going to have an effect on her desire to do it. Most women don't want to feel they are on display, especially in a situation like this. She most likely doesn't want another man to replace you sexually, but prefers to enjoy the pleasures of having two men working as a team stimulating her at the same time.

You really need to discuss these issues with her to see where her head is at, but most likely, if you approach this more from a "threesome" activity rather than a "be my private porn star" one, you will find her more receptive .

 

[Pegramguy]

Thank you all for your replies. Yes, I think even as a refresher these are all useful subjects to think about and consider on how to broach the barrier. I will take all these into consideration and be more vocal with her and what I am trying to set up.
Other thoughts?

 

[MacNfries]

... Other thoughts?

Don't "push" ... if she says no, respect her decision. She'll maybe reconsider it later down the road ...