Finding reliable men to fuck & concerns

[slvt-wife]

Hello,

I often go abroad due to my job. These trips are business trips, we go as a team, so that my husband can't join me. We usually don't go to a specific country, but different countries every time. My husband is completely ok with me fucking other men, but since I have some concerns, I've only been able to do it once, no matter how much I want to. Some of my fears:

- Fear of getting caught: Since I'm into the lifestyle, I'm buying lots of dresses, shoes, etc. that make me feel like a slut when I wear them, but my coworkers know I'm married, so the thought of getting caught while flirting with men in those clothes at nightclubs makes me very nervous. Therefore, I don't go to places like that very often.

- Privacy: I don't want my real identity to be revealed. The hotel rooms I stay in usually have double beds, so I can take a man into the room if I want, but since the room is reserved in my name, if the man I fucked convinces the receptionist, he can learn my identity.

- Going to another man's house / hotel room: Since I'm going to someone I just met, I won't know his character. He might have set up a hidden camera etc. and blackmail me.

Dating apps: They usually ask for a phone number and a face photo/facebook profile. Are there any apps where I can be completely anonymous?

I have been getting wet with the dream of this for years, I even see myself getting fucked by other men in my dreams but I haven't been very active because of such thoughts. Do you have such concerns, how do you deal with them?

 

[BSxc2021]

Hello,

I often go abroad due to my job. These trips are business trips, we go as a team, so that my husband can't join me. We usually don't go to a specific country, but different countries every time. My husband is completely ok with me fucking other men, but since I have some concerns, I've only been able to do it once, no matter how much I want to. Some of my fears:

- Fear of getting caught: Since I'm into the lifestyle, I'm buying lots of dresses, shoes, etc. that make me feel like a slut when I wear them, but my coworkers know I'm married, so the thought of getting caught while flirting with men in those clothes at nightclubs makes me very nervous. Therefore, I don't go to places like that very often.

- Privacy: I don't want my real identity to be revealed. The hotel rooms I stay in usually have double beds, so I can take a man into the room if I want, but since the room is reserved in my name, if the man I fucked convinces the receptionist, he can learn my identity.

- Going to another man's house / hotel room: Since I'm going to someone I just met, I won't know his character. He might have set up a hidden camera etc. and blackmail me.

Dating apps: They usually ask for a phone number and a face photo/facebook profile. Are there any apps where I can be completely anonymous?

I have been getting wet with the dream of this for years, I even see myself getting fucked by other men in my dreams but I haven't been very active because of such thoughts. Do you have such concerns, how do you deal with them?

Kik and or telegram is a good place to start with apps.

 

[Hotwifesue]

My wife has had many of these concerns. Use SDC.com or SLS.com. They are anonymous and you can use validations to pre-vet the men there. Good lifestyle men typically conduct themselves with discretion. I suggest a meet n greet in the hotel lobby before moving forward.

 

[Sweetlilcuck]

Business trips are always hectic for most people with long hours. People who do not go away on business, think you are out sight seeing. They do not understand that there is almost 0 amount of time off at night.
It would be difficult to hook up, unless you plan ahead.
Seeking Argeements is all good.

 

[Stag_husband]

My wife has had many of these concerns. Use SDC.com or SLS.com. They are anonymous and you can use validations to pre-vet the men there. Good lifestyle men typically conduct themselves with discretion. I suggest a meet n greet in the hotel lobby before moving forward.

Same with us.

 

[BBCDUDE510]

Hello,

I often go abroad due to my job. These trips are business trips, we go as a team, so that my husband can't join me. We usually don't go to a specific country, but different countries every time. My husband is completely ok with me fucking other men, but since I have some concerns, I've only been able to do it once, no matter how much I want to. Some of my fears:

- Fear of getting caught: Since I'm into the lifestyle, I'm buying lots of dresses, shoes, etc. that make me feel like a slut when I wear them, but my coworkers know I'm married, so the thought of getting caught while flirting with men in those clothes at nightclubs makes me very nervous. Therefore, I don't go to places like that very often.

- Privacy: I don't want my real identity to be revealed. The hotel rooms I stay in usually have double beds, so I can take a man into the room if I want, but since the room is reserved in my name, if the man I fucked convinces the receptionist, he can learn my identity.

- Going to another man's house / hotel room: Since I'm going to someone I just met, I won't know his character. He might have set up a hidden camera etc. and blackmail me.

Dating apps: They usually ask for a phone number and a face photo/facebook profile. Are there any apps where I can be completely anonymous?

I have been getting wet with the dream of this for years, I even see myself getting fucked by other men in my dreams but I haven't been very active because of such thoughts. Do you have such concerns, how do you deal with them?

You need to let me know when you come to Cali in the Bay area I'll love to eat ur pussy till you squirt all over my face and then I'll give you a BBC you won't forget

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Hello,

I often go abroad due to my job. These trips are business trips, we go as a team, so that my husband can't join me. We usually don't go to a specific country, but different countries every time. My husband is completely ok with me fucking other men, but since I have some concerns, I've only been able to do it once, no matter how much I want to. Some of my fears:

- Fear of getting caught: Since I'm into the lifestyle, I'm buying lots of dresses, shoes, etc. that make me feel like a slut when I wear them, but my coworkers know I'm married, so the thought of getting caught while flirting with men in those clothes at nightclubs makes me very nervous. Therefore, I don't go to places like that very often.

- Privacy: I don't want my real identity to be revealed. The hotel rooms I stay in usually have double beds, so I can take a man into the room if I want, but since the room is reserved in my name, if the man I fucked convinces the receptionist, he can learn my identity.

- Going to another man's house / hotel room: Since I'm going to someone I just met, I won't know his character. He might have set up a hidden camera etc. and blackmail me.

Dating apps: They usually ask for a phone number and a face photo/facebook profile. Are there any apps where I can be completely anonymous?

I have been getting wet with the dream of this for years, I even see myself getting fucked by other men in my dreams but I haven't been very active because of such thoughts. Do you have such concerns, how do you deal with them?

Those are ALL VALID concerns, especially for A Wife who travels alone.

TL/DR:
My main suggestion is to stick to Mature, Verified /Experienced Bulls. That will eliminate 99% of your concerns.

FULL ANSWER:
Someone, for example, on this website who you can clearly see they have great rapport with Wives/Couples and clear media with women!

Maturity and experience means everything in his lifestyle. There's really no need to take 'unnecessary chances'.... all the fears you mentioned can be REMOVED by meeting with a professional and experienced guy

A lot of your concerns goes both ways. An experienced bull is also a PROFESSIONAL MAN and a mature man usually 35yo+.... we have as much to lose or gain as you do in this lifestyle!

Mature experienced Bulls are less likely to be reckless.

Our reputation means everything to us!

We treat women with the utmost respect.

We are usually great with communication!

Experienced Bulls are not 'thirsty'! If you decide you can't meet or make it, that's the end of it. We're not going to continue messaging you and harassing you . We will simply move on

We have Resources (passport, travel points, hotel points, nightlife references, etc)

A mature experienced Bull won't be cheapskate! If you need to get a separate room I'm sure he will gladly pay for it so you can both experience a great night together!

And, finally... A Mature, Experienced Bull will safeguard your privacy as much as you will his!

Concerns and anxiety are a part of this lifestyle. Especially for a woman, it can be NERVE-WRACKING . But once you have that first good experience it gets easier the more you do it.

 

[ImpulsiveMojo]

You may be over complicating it a bit. Especially if you’re overseas. I’m seeing a teacher who does the same thing. She is super afraid of getting caught for smoking weed. Even, more concerned than being caught in the lifestyle.

Break away from your team and do what you want.

For the record, I’m in Nashville and lots of conferences are held here. It happens all the time. If you’re in a bigger city, the workers don’t care at all.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

You may be over complicating it a bit. Especially if you’re overseas. I’m seeing a teacher who does the same thing. She is super afraid of getting caught for smoking weed. Even, more concerned than being caught in the lifestyle.

Break away from your team and do what you want.

For the record, I’m in Nashville and lots of conferences are held here. It happens all the time. If you’re in a bigger city, the workers don’t care at all.

That's facts.

Nashville and Austin are very similar. Y'all have Broadway we have 6th street! People travel here for conferences from all over the world and guess what? They ALL want to go out and have fun.

No one's really concerned with what the other person is doing because everyone's trying to do their own thing LOL

 

[Kranks71]

Definitely get to know the person and try t set up something. If they are truly willing they will provide some sort of comfort
“Another room” to make it happen

 

[hungry4pussy2]

Omg your secy hot ass baby doll

 

[mightB2big4u]

Definitely get to know the person and try t set up something. If they are truly willing they will provide some sort of comfort
“Another room” to make it happen

Nice avatar

 

[Rene Mills]

I’m with you. When I traveled for work I had to be very discreet with coworkers. Now most of my regulars travel to me.

 

[Echoes]

Hello,

I often go abroad due to my job. These trips are business trips, we go as a team, so that my husband can't join me. We usually don't go to a specific country, but different countries every time. My husband is completely ok with me fucking other men, but since I have some concerns, I've only been able to do it once, no matter how much I want to. Some of my fears:

- Fear of getting caught: Since I'm into the lifestyle, I'm buying lots of dresses, shoes, etc. that make me feel like a slut when I wear them, but my coworkers know I'm married, so the thought of getting caught while flirting with men in those clothes at nightclubs makes me very nervous. Therefore, I don't go to places like that very often.

- Privacy: I don't want my real identity to be revealed. The hotel rooms I stay in usually have double beds, so I can take a man into the room if I want, but since the room is reserved in my name, if the man I fucked convinces the receptionist, he can learn my identity.

- Going to another man's house / hotel room: Since I'm going to someone I just met, I won't know his character. He might have set up a hidden camera etc. and blackmail me.

Dating apps: They usually ask for a phone number and a face photo/facebook profile. Are there any apps where I can be completely anonymous?

I have been getting wet with the dream of this for years, I even see myself getting fucked by other men in my dreams but I haven't been very active because of such thoughts. Do you have such concerns, how do you deal with them?

I often feel like a lot of these concerns are shared by the men as well as the females. So I feel like there is some even ground with concerns.

My husband feels the same. If I am out of town then what happens happens with reason and it does not bother him. Most of the time I am traveling alone when it comes to business so not too much concern of coworkers catching me in the act.

I do try and protect my identity as best as possible using only my first name or even a different name all together. I guess I have never been too concerned in regards to the man trying to get info out of the receptionist following.

I tend to not go to a man's house when alone. I have gone to their hotel rooms as well as bringing them back to mine and been lucky so far as I know to not have a porn collection out there somewhere.

I do agree dating apps tend to be risky and seen quite a few people outed due to app profiles being discovered.

 

[JJSMITHY54321]

Hello,

I often go abroad due to my job. These trips are business trips, we go as a team, so that my husband can't join me. We usually don't go to a specific country, but different countries every time. My husband is completely ok with me fucking other men, but since I have some concerns, I've only been able to do it once, no matter how much I want to. Some of my fears:

- Fear of getting caught: Since I'm into the lifestyle, I'm buying lots of dresses, shoes, etc. that make me feel like a slut when I wear them, but my coworkers know I'm married, so the thought of getting caught while flirting with men in those clothes at nightclubs makes me very nervous. Therefore, I don't go to places like that very often.

- Privacy: I don't want my real identity to be revealed. The hotel rooms I stay in usually have double beds, so I can take a man into the room if I want, but since the room is reserved in my name, if the man I fucked convinces the receptionist, he can learn my identity.

- Going to another man's house / hotel room: Since I'm going to someone I just met, I won't know his character. He might have set up a hidden camera etc. and blackmail me.

Dating apps: They usually ask for a phone number and a face photo/facebook profile. Are there any apps where I can be completely anonymous?

I have been getting wet with the dream of this for years, I even see myself getting fucked by other men in my dreams but I haven't been very active because of such thoughts. Do you have such concerns, how do you deal with them?

Those are very valid concerns!

My wife does not mix business & pleasure, i.e. see a Bull while on a business trip (she does not go on many over night work trips, either), so we play close to home. She has gone on private trips with her Bull, either out of the country, Costa Rica and Punta Cana, DR and out of town weekend trips.

 

[AnnieS]

Hello,

I often go abroad due to my job. These trips are business trips, we go as a team, so that my husband can't join me. We usually don't go to a specific country, but different countries every time. My husband is completely ok with me fucking other men, but since I have some concerns, I've only been able to do it once, no matter how much I want to. Some of my fears:

- Fear of getting caught: Since I'm into the lifestyle, I'm buying lots of dresses, shoes, etc. that make me feel like a slut when I wear them, but my coworkers know I'm married, so the thought of getting caught while flirting with men in those clothes at nightclubs makes me very nervous. Therefore, I don't go to places like that very often.

- Privacy: I don't want my real identity to be revealed. The hotel rooms I stay in usually have double beds, so I can take a man into the room if I want, but since the room is reserved in my name, if the man I fucked convinces the receptionist, he can learn my identity.

- Going to another man's house / hotel room: Since I'm going to someone I just met, I won't know his character. He might have set up a hidden camera etc. and blackmail me.

Dating apps: They usually ask for a phone number and a face photo/facebook profile. Are there any apps where I can be completely anonymous?

I have been getting wet with the dream of this for years, I even see myself getting fucked by other men in my dreams but I haven't been very active because of such thoughts. Do you have such concerns, how do you deal with them?

Your over thinking this.
1) Privacy: I don't want my real identity to be revealed. The hotel rooms I stay in usually have double beds, so I can take a man into the room if I want, but since the room is reserved in my name, if the man I fucked convinces the receptionist, he can learn my identity.

Unless this guy is in the CIA he isnt interested in your identity or asking the hotel staff what your name is etc.. hes intrested in fucking you. he may not want you to have his name as well. Meet him in the lobby bar. Give him a room number and go up a few minutes before him. Nobody is spying on you. If youre that worried then use a different name on your resv.


2)- Going to another man's house / hotel room: Since I'm going to someone I just met, I won't know his character. He might have set up a hidden camera etc. and blackmail me.

Highly suggest that you never do that. You keep control over your situation in a place you are comfortable. Personally I never go to someones house or meet at a place not of my choosing. For exactly the reasons you mention. My saftey and my privacy that I am in control of. If he's not down with that then move on.
3) Dating apps: They usually ask for a phone number and a face photo/facebook profile. Are there any apps where I can be completely anonymous?

Dont use dating apps. Use LS sites like this one or others. You will have to verifiy who you are eventually and he as well. How will you know what they look like? Attraction has to be mutual. I personally do not give out my phone number to random guys but I also dont just go do random people. I vette them and if comfortable I will start a conversation here in this chat DM. Very very rarely will I give my personal number to someone. especially someone I just met. Use messenger, whatsapp, all kinds of other messenging sites that you can limit access to that.


4) - Fear of getting caught: Since I'm into the lifestyle, I'm buying lots of dresses, shoes, etc. that make me feel like a slut when I wear them, but my coworkers know I'm married, so the thought of getting caught while flirting with men in those clothes at nightclubs makes me very nervous. Therefore, I don't go to places like that very often.

Easiest one to handle- Just dont play in the same place your co workers are at or near. Go to another area and be descreet if in the same hotel. Try to manage a room on a different floor for example