You say this like it's a good thing...
Yes!
isn’t it? X
What do you think? Why do you believe it's a good thing?
I didn’t mean it to sound good or bad, just genuinely curious. I’ve had white women tell me it’s sexy I’m ‘exotic’ but other white women tell me I’m not dark enough
About what though? I'm not quite understanding.
Either you enjoy everything about you being distilled down to the colour of your skin/how much melanin you have or you don't.
That’s a very binary way of looking at things, I just wanted to gain a further understanding of the fetishisation of black males and whether is was limited to certain aspects of blackness.
I don’t like or dislike being fetishised for my melanin, for me it’s an opportunity to explore aspects of my sexuality and kinks around being dominant with people who gain enjoyment from the colour of my skin. It’s a transaction between consenting adults, we know the parts we are playing and why we have been chosen
IstrokeC100
Male
Trying to be very honest, it is indeed the case with my wife that if we are in a club - and we have used all the Manchester ones EIIJ- she will most likely be eying up the black guys. But also the tall guys, the fit looking guys etc! So the tall, fit and very black guy would be her choice, if she had only that glance around the room to go on. But in reality, some time at least is spent in socialising ( though she’s never been one for spending half the evening before going to a private room). And then other factors come into play. And she’s had very enjoyable sessions with mixed as well as really black men. From my point of view as a cuckold and a voyeur, there is something special about the sharpest contrast between white and black, but from hers, it’s not a big deal.
No it doesn't matter
I completely understand how visually the contrast is much more striking and if that’s part of the enjoyment then it makes sense. thank you for being honest.
I’m new to Manchester, where are the clubs? I’m 6ft 5 and I think I’ve got a good personality
IstrokeC100
Male
There are others in the area but the ones we know best are Cupids ( Swinton) and the Adam and Eves ( Eccles). However we’ve not been to either since before Covid and in our experience things can change quickly! Of those two , most people would prefer Cupids,which is much bigger with nicer facilities. However we have a fondness for Adam and Eves as it was the first place I was ever cuckolded! And it was I believe the first open ‘ mixed sauna’ club, of the type now so popular, in the country, others calling themselves so being in effect brothels. At one time it was insanely busy with people travelling from as far as London and Scotland. Janes first BBC was in another club, now long gone, called the Boardroom. Are you on Fabswingers?
No, I’m new to this
because you dont agree with it makes them racist ??
It’s a kink and a personal preference, it’s not racism. Don’t be upset because they’re not choosing you
im not upset But you said Racist bitches
Thats just youre oponion Nothing more
That wasn’t me, that was @Dellvan
