Lol, you better have some sort of understanding about how things are going to go or it won't last.
The single guys on here that aren't married but act like they are post some of the most ridiculous unbelievable ******* I've ever read.
We have been in the LS for 20+ years, we started young. We most definitely had out bumps and bruises along the way. Mistakes are made, you recover from them or you don't. We have even taken compete breaks from the LS, one time it was over a year that we/she didn't play.
We have met tons of amazing people from couples to single male and females that are all into this LS.
So when some of the cats come on here and write things like.."I'm not allowed to have sex with my wife anymore." Well that's fucking bullshit.
I promise you a relationship like that will not last. If you are that weak ass of a man that you aren't even allowed to stick your dick in your own wife, what fucking good are you? A woman is not going to keep your ass around.
So to the OP, don't fall for the hype. If you are really really serious about getting into this LS you and your wife had better have a fucking plan and you better communicate. I have first hand seen what happens to couples that don't. Fantasy is fantasy bit reality is reality!
Peace...