If the male wants to find a female to have sexual encounters with then you are an open-minded couple.I suppose sexuality is as varied as or fingerprints. I think what I want should be all over this site.
I want to be in a relationship with a white man my age 55-65. I want a normal life together, this includes naughty, loving and mutually fulfilling intercourse. Then... on occasion, at my prompting, I want us to find a black male with whom I can have sexual encounters. I want to be the one who decides all the extracurricular activities in our bedroom, I mean down to the last detail.
Could it be this male isn’t a cuck but just an open-minded guy?
If you don't want him to have sexual encounters too, and he is ok with that, then he's a cuck.