My wife and I listened to this podcast by Dr Sue last night and I have to say, it’s these kinds of things that give us pause about making the final leap into the lifestyle of cuckolding. The premise of the podcast is that the wife in the FLR initiated the idea and entered into the lifestyle with the husbands full consent questionable it sounds like to me. The bull inserted himself very dominantly into the relationship and took control of everything. Paraphrased greatly, but that’s the jest of it all. So I guess my question is how many bulls are there out there like this and how do you weed that out in your search?. I guess meet and greet and a full explanation of wants and desires from both sides? I would like to think this is a small percentage of the whole. We call ourselves a cuckold couple, but use the term loosely or in its base form that we are in a FLR and my wife is in charge and is the dominant one. There are SOME aspects of cuckolding that I like the idea of, some teasing and light humiliation, beyond that, I will probably remain clothed when my wife has the bull to the hotel, I won’t wear panties or stockings or anything like that. Maybe I’m closer to stag than I think. Truthfully she would just like to have some good enhanced sex with someone and that be that for the most part. I think this even pissed her off as she was upset that the wife really did nothing to protect the relationship in her mind and allowed this all to take place. I get that some like this and they want things like this to play out and if you do and everyone is in consent to it, then have at it. I guess I just get concerned that potential bulls will make assumptions as to what we want when we call ourselves a cuckold couple. One already has and asked my wife about cleaning his penis off in an email and she had to correct him that I was not no-sexual. In this case I like Samuel Jackson’s description of what assumptions do for you.
), he took control of her and it got dark fast.
