I am just ranting. I will stay safe as a good citizen should. As for reconnecting with My Husband, he unfortunately cheated on me exactly nine months and three weeks ago!!! To my utter surprise three weeks ago I found out all about this when the girls parents, yes I said her parents, because she was only considered an adult because the law says an 18 yr old is an adult, showed up at my house to announce he was needed at the hospital!!! You can guess why! So he is super grounded and has had all of his sexual access to my own personal wonderland revoked until I am no longer mad at him. I do not know when this will be. All I know is April currently does not have a very forgiving outlook. May also doesn't look good. I am not mad he cheated, I do not like the idea of monogamy as I am polyamorous by nature. We only did monogamy cause he begged me for it for years. So I gave in. So I was being monogamous and he was shagging a baby! And didnt tell me. I could have been doing my own thing but was denying my own nature and he was cheating. And because he couldn't be bothered with protection he has disrupted my life with unwanted drama that will never go away. It's the sneaky that made me so furious. He had nine months to break the news. Nope he let me answer the door of an angry ******* of a baby!!!! Any who sorry I went on a rant. But I'm allowed cause I'm pretty peeved off.