Considering BJ without condom. Your advice?

[coupledenice]

Hi everyone!
We have our next date coming up with our friend. Up untill now (four dates) everything has been done with condom, including blowjobs. And it’s fantastic even with condom
Now we are very carefully considering for her to suck his bbc without condom. Sex however will be with condom as usual.
It would be a big step for us, because
we are scared of health risks. Even though our friend is a very intelligent, sensible and hygienic person who takes care of himself very well.
He does have more couples and wives that he sees besides us.

What are your thoughts and also your experiences on the matter? Would you like to share them with us? We are very interested in the perspective on this from both couples as well as you guys with bbc’s

Thanks so much in advance!

 

[Deepnyou]

That's up to her

Is he clean, is he willing to show that he gets tested regularly?

Is she willing to take the risk?

It's a game of trust. If you trust him then go ahead, if not then don't.

 

[Naughtygators]

We’ve been swingers for over 25 yrs. Unprotected BJs are the norm and almost how folks say hi at swinger resorts. In all our time we have never had an STD issue. There are absolutely risks, but STD transmission from oral sex is very low. Some pre-cum is expected, but not letting him finish in her mouth also reduces risks.

The wife’s a naughty nurse and well aware of the risks and still prefers unprotected oral. I’m (husband & medic) bi and give oral as unprotected well.

Oral w a condom is pretty rare and you found a good bull that was ok w it. Certainly someone you may want to explore more with. STD testing isn’t perfect even if he does show you test results. You just have to accept that some risks are inherent, and decide if the reward is worth it. We think it is!!!

We only go bare for sex w trusted and tested partners.

Good luck and we look forward to stories and pics.

 

[oilysteel]

Hi everyone!
We have our next date coming up with our friend. Up untill now (four dates) everything has been done with condom, including blowjobs. And it’s fantastic even with condom
Now we are very carefully considering for her to suck his bbc without condom. Sex however will be with condom as usual.
It would be a big step for us, because
we are scared of health risks. Even though our friend is a very intelligent, sensible and hygienic person who takes care of himself very well.
He does have more couples and wives that he sees besides us.

What are your thoughts and also your experiences on the matter? Would you like to share them with us? We are very interested in the perspective on this from both couples as well as you guys with bbc’s

Thanks so much in advance!

you have to do what YOU are comfortable with or it won't be fun. I am more than ok with PPE