Long time lurker, first time poster.
After 10 years of role play and talking, my wife has finally agreed to be shared -- and is very excited about it! Part of what got her into doing this for real was my belated realization that I needed to present it to her in a way that made her feel safe and secure, not just in our relationship but also her physical safety. Part of that is that she does not want to meet strangers for play, and feels safer in a swing club with vetted individuals. Which leads me to my question(s).
We are located in New England, which doesn't have many swing clubs. That said, I've heard good things about Choice in Providence. She's agreed to go to an "Insatiable" night that specializes in having single men in good standing with the club, provided the coast is clear from a COVID perspective.
1) Can anyone speak to what these nights are like? Ratio of single men to couples?
2) Are most of the single men there BBC or is there a more even mix? Our conversations have mostly focused on the sharing aspect rather than race. While I find the idea of her taking BBC really hot, I haven't been pushing it on her specifically because I am trying to take things one step at a time. So if someone here tells me it's nearly all BBC, that's fine and we're still going, but I'd probably give her a heads up on what to expect so she doesn't feel "bait and switched" on fantasies. BTW, my true goal here is to see her pleasured in general, not specifically BBC (but that would be a bonus).
3) Are the men by and large respectful? I am not particularly into being humiliated- nothing against those who are into that, and I DEFINITELY won't tolerate my wife being disrespected.
For those of you that know enough about the place, any info you can provide to a newbie would be much appreciated. I know the club is closed for the time being due to the pandemic but looking forward to going soon after!
After 10 years of role play and talking, my wife has finally agreed to be shared -- and is very excited about it! Part of what got her into doing this for real was my belated realization that I needed to present it to her in a way that made her feel safe and secure, not just in our relationship but also her physical safety. Part of that is that she does not want to meet strangers for play, and feels safer in a swing club with vetted individuals. Which leads me to my question(s).
We are located in New England, which doesn't have many swing clubs. That said, I've heard good things about Choice in Providence. She's agreed to go to an "Insatiable" night that specializes in having single men in good standing with the club, provided the coast is clear from a COVID perspective.
1) Can anyone speak to what these nights are like? Ratio of single men to couples?
2) Are most of the single men there BBC or is there a more even mix? Our conversations have mostly focused on the sharing aspect rather than race. While I find the idea of her taking BBC really hot, I haven't been pushing it on her specifically because I am trying to take things one step at a time. So if someone here tells me it's nearly all BBC, that's fine and we're still going, but I'd probably give her a heads up on what to expect so she doesn't feel "bait and switched" on fantasies. BTW, my true goal here is to see her pleasured in general, not specifically BBC (but that would be a bonus).
3) Are the men by and large respectful? I am not particularly into being humiliated- nothing against those who are into that, and I DEFINITELY won't tolerate my wife being disrespected.
For those of you that know enough about the place, any info you can provide to a newbie would be much appreciated. I know the club is closed for the time being due to the pandemic but looking forward to going soon after!
