I thought I'd share this as it might help others.
We are a happily married stag vixen couple both in mid 30's from England. For me (the husband) it started with interracial porn. It took a few years of enjoying this before I even had thoughts about my wife being with a hung black guy. I’m not into being humiliated. It was watching amateur content that did it for me initially. To plant the seed with my wife I bought her a black dildo for a birthday present. I told her "they only had black ones left in stock" as an excuse. A white lie. No harm done. She didn't seem to mind one bit and enjoyed its large size. I've always known she likes to be filled up from her occasionally asking me to put as many fingers as I can inside her. She always likes me deep and hard inside her too.
After a few times of using the dildo I started introducing dirty talk whilst watching her ride it and me using it on her. Simple stuff she just needed to reply "yes" to, like "is that nice? Is it filling you up?" then later I slipped in the "Do you like that big black cock inside you?" comment and later as she was close to orgasm I use to say "what's fucking you?, What's filling you up?" to which she replied (in-between moaning) "that big black cock"
This continued steadily for literally a few years. I never pushed her or even asked if she'd want to take it further, I just let her enjoy riding black dildo's and moaning dirty talk whilst using them. She let me film these sex sessions between us and she knew I really enjoyed watching the video's of her when I was alone. The next year or so I bought her newer more realistic black dildo's, she enjoyed them all.
During this time we were going at it doggy style one night after using a dildo on her and I said one day she might get a real bbc to which she replied instantly "I'm not going down that road” - not what I wanted to hear!
Instead of letting her know my disappointment I said nothing. I shifted my focus onto building her confidence and reiterating my continual devotion to her. From the start my wife has always known how much I adore her and her curves. I started making her no1. in the bedroom every time. HER orgasms came first. Her pleasure came first, and I told her this too. I emphasised that I was more bothered about her pleasure than mine. That she was no.1 and my pleasure came 2nd. Another imprtant thing I did was to show her the instagram models and influencers that I followed. They were all curvy women just like she is. Iskra being one of them. My wife even started following her too, then a few months later Iskra announced she had a boyfriend and he happened to be a tall muscular black guy - Jackpot!
The months passed and the more IG pawg pics I sent her the more she liked it and said they boost her confidence. It was about then when I told her that I searched online for women that looked just like her when searching for porn to get off to. She loved this. I also told her that black men adore her type of big booty figure and that I was sure she will be looked at in the street when she's out. This led to me confessing that I try to find women that look just like her WITH hung black men. She didn't seem to mind this either. I also told her I'd like to show her what I watch, she responded positively so I eventually did just that. And this was the turning point. Right here. It was a 'date night' in another city. We were sat outside a bar both ******* and enjoying ourselves. We got on to the subject and I showed her my small private collection of amateur interracial video's on my phone. All the women had similar body shape to her. They were in a folder intermingled with pictures of her on nights out. One of them was a pic I found on her fb pics that a friend tagged her in, it was from a random girls night out from years ago where she got a selfie with a black guy in a club. I didn't need to tell her what I wanted to happen but she could see it right there. Right then she said "I think I could do it you know, sleep with a black guy, but I've not told you my own fantasy yet" She then went on to say she fantasises about being with another woman. Then went on to say life's too short and we should do these things.
That night we went back to our hotel room and she drunkenly fucked our black dildo for two hours straight. Moaning and roleplaying about her fantasies and mine.
Fast forward another 6 months and now whenever she wants to orgasm she ALWAYS voluntarily asks me for my phone so SHE can watch MY interracial porn collection while I go down on her.
She’s recently done a sexy professional photoshoot which has boosted her self confidence further.
The past month she's had two real life encounters with black men. She couldn't wait to tell me she had "pulled" them when she got home each time with a big smile on her face. One guy she was in a car park about to put money in the pay and display machine when the guy ran up to her with his ticket saying he can have hers. They flirted and he left.
She told me that her pussy twinged on both occasions. Now it seems my fantasy has become hers. Her exact words when she first told me was "Whenever I see a black man, all I think about is your fantasy"
She's also told me she could "pull a black man in a sea of white men” So in response to that I’ve said prove it, go get a new selfie with a black guys when you’re out with the girls. She said yes alright I will. She's not had the opportunity to do this yet.
A few weeks later she said she still wants to do fuck a black guy but she's not sure she's emotionally ready for it yet. I've always said to her truthfully that I want her to do this for HER not for me. And that the moment she's going through with it JUST for ME then I seriously don't want her to. This is all 100% true btw. A few weeks after that she gets sexy new underwear of her own accord and tells me "if" it happens she's already bought the underwear she wants to wear on the night.
Most recently I’ve told her I’m going to stay out of her pussy for as long as possible and try to just use my tongue and fingers. She said “why?!” I said because I want you to crave being fucked by a black guy. To which she replied “you’re mean” with a wry smile on her face.
We are now at the point where she's helped me create a couples profile on a swingers website and actively looking for both women and black men. We've discussed the first meet and agreed a social prior is a must. I've shown her profiles of black guys and she's openly said she would fuck each one.
I am in no rush. I feel I've done my bit. I'd rather wait for HER to crave a night of passion with a black man and be 100% emotionally ready, than me keep on at her about it each time I'm horny.
I would like to read your thoughts on our journey so far!
We are a happily married stag vixen couple both in mid 30's from England. For me (the husband) it started with interracial porn. It took a few years of enjoying this before I even had thoughts about my wife being with a hung black guy. I’m not into being humiliated. It was watching amateur content that did it for me initially. To plant the seed with my wife I bought her a black dildo for a birthday present. I told her "they only had black ones left in stock" as an excuse. A white lie. No harm done. She didn't seem to mind one bit and enjoyed its large size. I've always known she likes to be filled up from her occasionally asking me to put as many fingers as I can inside her. She always likes me deep and hard inside her too.
After a few times of using the dildo I started introducing dirty talk whilst watching her ride it and me using it on her. Simple stuff she just needed to reply "yes" to, like "is that nice? Is it filling you up?" then later I slipped in the "Do you like that big black cock inside you?" comment and later as she was close to orgasm I use to say "what's fucking you?, What's filling you up?" to which she replied (in-between moaning) "that big black cock"
This continued steadily for literally a few years. I never pushed her or even asked if she'd want to take it further, I just let her enjoy riding black dildo's and moaning dirty talk whilst using them. She let me film these sex sessions between us and she knew I really enjoyed watching the video's of her when I was alone. The next year or so I bought her newer more realistic black dildo's, she enjoyed them all.
During this time we were going at it doggy style one night after using a dildo on her and I said one day she might get a real bbc to which she replied instantly "I'm not going down that road” - not what I wanted to hear!
Instead of letting her know my disappointment I said nothing. I shifted my focus onto building her confidence and reiterating my continual devotion to her. From the start my wife has always known how much I adore her and her curves. I started making her no1. in the bedroom every time. HER orgasms came first. Her pleasure came first, and I told her this too. I emphasised that I was more bothered about her pleasure than mine. That she was no.1 and my pleasure came 2nd. Another imprtant thing I did was to show her the instagram models and influencers that I followed. They were all curvy women just like she is. Iskra being one of them. My wife even started following her too, then a few months later Iskra announced she had a boyfriend and he happened to be a tall muscular black guy - Jackpot!
The months passed and the more IG pawg pics I sent her the more she liked it and said they boost her confidence. It was about then when I told her that I searched online for women that looked just like her when searching for porn to get off to. She loved this. I also told her that black men adore her type of big booty figure and that I was sure she will be looked at in the street when she's out. This led to me confessing that I try to find women that look just like her WITH hung black men. She didn't seem to mind this either. I also told her I'd like to show her what I watch, she responded positively so I eventually did just that. And this was the turning point. Right here. It was a 'date night' in another city. We were sat outside a bar both ******* and enjoying ourselves. We got on to the subject and I showed her my small private collection of amateur interracial video's on my phone. All the women had similar body shape to her. They were in a folder intermingled with pictures of her on nights out. One of them was a pic I found on her fb pics that a friend tagged her in, it was from a random girls night out from years ago where she got a selfie with a black guy in a club. I didn't need to tell her what I wanted to happen but she could see it right there. Right then she said "I think I could do it you know, sleep with a black guy, but I've not told you my own fantasy yet" She then went on to say she fantasises about being with another woman. Then went on to say life's too short and we should do these things.
That night we went back to our hotel room and she drunkenly fucked our black dildo for two hours straight. Moaning and roleplaying about her fantasies and mine.
Fast forward another 6 months and now whenever she wants to orgasm she ALWAYS voluntarily asks me for my phone so SHE can watch MY interracial porn collection while I go down on her.
She’s recently done a sexy professional photoshoot which has boosted her self confidence further.
The past month she's had two real life encounters with black men. She couldn't wait to tell me she had "pulled" them when she got home each time with a big smile on her face. One guy she was in a car park about to put money in the pay and display machine when the guy ran up to her with his ticket saying he can have hers. They flirted and he left.
She told me that her pussy twinged on both occasions. Now it seems my fantasy has become hers. Her exact words when she first told me was "Whenever I see a black man, all I think about is your fantasy"
She's also told me she could "pull a black man in a sea of white men” So in response to that I’ve said prove it, go get a new selfie with a black guys when you’re out with the girls. She said yes alright I will. She's not had the opportunity to do this yet.
A few weeks later she said she still wants to do fuck a black guy but she's not sure she's emotionally ready for it yet. I've always said to her truthfully that I want her to do this for HER not for me. And that the moment she's going through with it JUST for ME then I seriously don't want her to. This is all 100% true btw. A few weeks after that she gets sexy new underwear of her own accord and tells me "if" it happens she's already bought the underwear she wants to wear on the night.
Most recently I’ve told her I’m going to stay out of her pussy for as long as possible and try to just use my tongue and fingers. She said “why?!” I said because I want you to crave being fucked by a black guy. To which she replied “you’re mean” with a wry smile on her face.
We are now at the point where she's helped me create a couples profile on a swingers website and actively looking for both women and black men. We've discussed the first meet and agreed a social prior is a must. I've shown her profiles of black guys and she's openly said she would fuck each one.
I am in no rush. I feel I've done my bit. I'd rather wait for HER to crave a night of passion with a black man and be 100% emotionally ready, than me keep on at her about it each time I'm horny.
I would like to read your thoughts on our journey so far!
