Careful what you wish for

Nole9911

Nole9911

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My wife of 5 years dated black men before we met. I made her tell me about how big the cocks were, how she would cum over and over. Begged and begged to let me watch. After three years, she finally let me watch. Within a year she started sneaking. Found her on 5 dating apps, she was only looking for bbc. She suddenly asked me to move out. Within a month a 6’6 Dark black man moved in. We are divorced, she’s had his baby and I’m alone. All I wanted was to love her and let her get all the black cock she needed. I would have watched her take it every day. I hope she is cheating on him now with a bigger BBC, and I would take her back today. I would clean her and worship her and her bbc lovers.
 

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Sorry to hear it. Its ok to fall in lust but for a married woman to fall in love, or what she thinks is true love then the marriage is doomed. I never mistook lust for love with a married woman. I want the married woman to stay married for if her family found out or co workers found out then there are problems for her that she doesn't need. In reality they are fond of the husband and don't want to see him hurt. They just want or need the emotional/physical longing to be filled.
 
Nole9911 said:
My wife of 5 years dated black men before we met. I made her tell me about how big the cocks were, how she would cum over and over. Begged and begged to let me watch. After three years, she finally let me watch. Within a year she started sneaking. Found her on 5 dating apps, she was only looking for bbc. She suddenly asked me to move out. Within a month a 6’6 Dark black man moved in. We are divorced, she’s had his baby and I’m alone. All I wanted was to live her and let her get all the black dock she needed.
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In the first three years was she dating black men?
 
Nole9911 said:
My wife of 5 years dated black men before we met. I made her tell me about how big the cocks were, how she would cum over and over. Begged and begged to let me watch. After three years, she finally let me watch. Within a year she started sneaking. Found her on 5 dating apps, she was only looking for bbc. She suddenly asked me to move out. Within a month a 6’6 Dark black man moved in. We are divorced, she’s had his baby and I’m alone. All I wanted was to live her and let her get all the black dock she needed.
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Same...
 
My wife left me for her black lover. He never married her but she had 3 children by him and is still with him. She told me before we married that she had never dated a black guy but within a year and a half she was cheating on me with one whom she feel in love with. She told me how sex with him was so intense and she just wanted to be his woman.
 
HotwifeofOhio said:
If you can not separate love from lust, then I do not recommend any type of lifestyle beside it being just the two of you. I personally no Men who pushed and pushed and then kept pushing different lifestyles and none of them ended happily ever after. Be careful what you wish for. 💋
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Well said, What i observed during our years of swinging or as it was often referred to then open marriage was three kinds of couples . Those who got into it because they both wanted to increase or enhance their existing relationship. They discussed it together making it a mutual agreed adventure. Then there were couples where one pushed the other into it. In most cases the male doing the pushing. The third group were those who just for reasons known to them were searching for whatever they felt they were missing with the existing partner. Usually not so unhappy they were fighting at least not at the gatherings. But after spending time with them the signs were there that all was not solid on the home front.
Adding a couple or single person or even a group scene can be very satisfying to one or both of a couple if they have really talked it through. set limits or boundaries both are comfortable with and stick to them. As you say pushing is never a good idea, those who feel pushed so often push back. Then you have a problem you may not be able to solve or repair.
 
Bdsub70 said:
It's possible to love two different people and make it work. Requires honesty and understanding. My wife loves me and her primary lover. Splits time with both of us. I've never seen her happier. Which makes me happy.
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do you think that if you also found someone that would satisfy you sexually and be your primary lover, just like he is to her, would she understand?
 
Nole9911 said:
My wife of 5 years dated black men before we met. I made her tell me about how big the cocks were, how she would cum over and over. Begged and begged to let me watch. After three years, she finally let me watch. Within a year she started sneaking. Found her on 5 dating apps, she was only looking for bbc. She suddenly asked me to move out. Within a month a 6’6 Dark black man moved in. We are divorced, she’s had his baby and I’m alone. All I wanted was to live her and let her get all the black dock she needed.
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And you are paying alimony?
 
MisterM said:
do you think that if you also found someone that would satisfy you sexually and be your primary lover, just like he is to her, would she understand?
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That would be a complete change in our dynamic that has framed our marriage over the last 15 years. It would mean that we changed the type of people we are. It's not as simple as you're framing it.
 
Bdsub70 said:
That would be a complete change in our dynamic that has framed our marriage over the last 15 years. It would mean that we changed the type of people we are. It's not as simple as you're framing it.
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Of course not, but change happens. Couples in this lifestyle didn't necesarily start out that way, they c hanged and grew into it. And the relationship weathered that change. Couldn't that happen to you as well?
 
MisterM said:
do you think that if you also found someone that would satisfy you sexually and be your primary lover, just like he is to her, would she understand?
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In my case she most likely wouldn't understand. But that's okay with me. I was just looking for this kind of asymmetry!
 
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