We run into that problem as well. We have some contacts from a a year or two ago. One moved (military), another was fun and great in bed but schedules didn't work. We don't play all the time (been in the lifestyle 20 years) but it shouldn't be this hard , never had that problem getting laid. We should put on a mixer in Springfield. Maybe do it over a couple of weekends at a local bar & grill or something. Just an idea, thinking out loud. If people click cool if not, well it happens. I'll post if we are going to go out in Springfield. If others would like to join for some drinks and uncomfortable small talk (lol) you will know where we are and what we look like.