Am I Misreading My Black Wife?

[sweetcouplex]

We're a mixed couple from the UK. My wife is black and she's pretty much always pursued white guys who are rugby players. That's how it's always been. She's always said that she attracted to black guys but they don't do it for her as much as white guys. Recently, she's been asking me to choose porn for us to watch, and I try and choose some random stuff.

What changed everything was when I put on a blacked video. Her reaction was unbelievable.

A few days later I gave her a selection to pick from and she picked another Blacked video. My wife has never masturbated to porn, but she began masturbating furiously and came three times. The sex afterwards was amazing. We've watched other videos and unless it blacked, she seems to just skim through them.


We've spoken and I've hinted at her maybe flirting online or sexting with a black guy but we've hit all sorts of issues. She goes hot and cold.

For example, she said that she couldn't be bothered doing this with a guy who didn't have a BBC and he would need to be bigger than me to make it worth it (I'm well hung, which was part of the reason we got together). She doesn't feel like she has a chance with that sort of guy and thinks he would reject her. in fact, there was a black guy at her work she was into, but she would flirt with him and he wouldn't flirt back, so she thinks she could never get a guy that hung to want her as there are younger women in better shape, or they prefer white women. That kinda breaks my heart and it's one of the reasons I'm posting here.

She thinks I would grow resentful if she did anything. Her ideal scenario would be a threesome with myself and a BBC servicing her. She only would want it to happen if it happened naturally and organically! She also thinks it would destroy our marriage and it is wrong and if she wanted it that much we should breakup.

I know this isn’t typical for here but it still seems the best place. Any advice?

 

[BiSubCuck]

Sounds like your women needs a confidence booster. So the hard part is her wanting things to happen organically. If they ever do.
I would say you are going to have to be brave here and remind her that organically is the way to find love, not to find certain sexual characteritsics. And tell her that today in this modern world there really is nothing wrong with a married woman advertising to find a man who is Not like her husband. And she is saying that she would want you there because that makes her feel better. So all along, keep reminding her that You'd want to be there as they meet. But when iy comes to her having sex, you want her to let go and forget about You, to just focus on Herself and the pleasure of her lover. And tell her, you hope that its the best sex she has ever had.
You two will no doubt go back and forth a lot on this. It is not easy to reassure a wife that she can become a wanton slut for another man's cock.

 

[Diamondjim]

We're a mixed couple from the UK. My wife is black and she's pretty much always pursued white guys who are rugby players. That's how it's always been. She's always said that she attracted to black guys but they don't do it for her as much as white guys. Recently, she's been asking me to choose porn for us to watch, and I try and choose some random stuff.

What changed everything was when I put on a blacked video. Her reaction was unbelievable.

A few days later I gave her a selection to pick from and she picked another Blacked video. My wife has never masturbated to porn, but she began masturbating furiously and came three times. The sex afterwards was amazing. We've watched other videos and unless it blacked, she seems to just skim through them.


We've spoken and I've hinted at her maybe flirting online or sexting with a black guy but we've hit all sorts of issues. She goes hot and cold.

For example, she said that she couldn't be bothered doing this with a guy who didn't have a BBC and he would need to be bigger than me to make it worth it (I'm well hung, which was part of the reason we got together). She doesn't feel like she has a chance with that sort of guy and thinks he would reject her. in fact, there was a black guy at her work she was into, but she would flirt with him and he wouldn't flirt back, so she thinks she could never get a guy that hung to want her as there are younger women in better shape, or they prefer white women. That kinda breaks my heart and it's one of the reasons I'm posting here.

She thinks I would grow resentful if she did anything. Her ideal scenario would be a threesome with myself and a BBC servicing her. She only would want it to happen if it happened naturally and organically! She also thinks it would destroy our marriage and it is wrong and if she wanted it that much we should breakup.

I know this isn’t typical for here but it still seems the best place. Any advice?

Drop it or lose your wife.

 

[hungry4pussy2]

We're a mixed couple from the UK. My wife is black and she's pretty much always pursued white guys who are rugby players. That's how it's always been. She's always said that she attracted to black guys but they don't do it for her as much as white guys. Recently, she's been asking me to choose porn for us to watch, and I try and choose some random stuff.

What changed everything was when I put on a blacked video. Her reaction was unbelievable.

A few days later I gave her a selection to pick from and she picked another Blacked video. My wife has never masturbated to porn, but she began masturbating furiously and came three times. The sex afterwards was amazing. We've watched other videos and unless it blacked, she seems to just skim through them.


We've spoken and I've hinted at her maybe flirting online or sexting with a black guy but we've hit all sorts of issues. She goes hot and cold.

For example, she said that she couldn't be bothered doing this with a guy who didn't have a BBC and he would need to be bigger than me to make it worth it (I'm well hung, which was part of the reason we got together). She doesn't feel like she has a chance with that sort of guy and thinks he would reject her. in fact, there was a black guy at her work she was into, but she would flirt with him and he wouldn't flirt back, so she thinks she could never get a guy that hung to want her as there are younger women in better shape, or they prefer white women. That kinda breaks my heart and it's one of the reasons I'm posting here.

She thinks I would grow resentful if she did anything. Her ideal scenario would be a threesome with myself and a BBC servicing her. She only would want it to happen if it happened naturally and organically! She also thinks it would destroy our marriage and it is wrong and if she wanted it that much we should breakup.

I know this isn’t typical for here but it still seems the best place. Any advice?

Lucky you dude.

 

[Jimmydong]

We're a mixed couple from the UK. My wife is black and she's pretty much always pursued white guys who are rugby players. That's how it's always been. She's always said that she attracted to black guys but they don't do it for her as much as white guys. Recently, she's been asking me to choose porn for us to watch, and I try and choose some random stuff.

What changed everything was when I put on a blacked video. Her reaction was unbelievable.

A few days later I gave her a selection to pick from and she picked another Blacked video. My wife has never masturbated to porn, but she began masturbating furiously and came three times. The sex afterwards was amazing. We've watched other videos and unless it blacked, she seems to just skim through them.


We've spoken and I've hinted at her maybe flirting online or sexting with a black guy but we've hit all sorts of issues. She goes hot and cold.

For example, she said that she couldn't be bothered doing this with a guy who didn't have a BBC and he would need to be bigger than me to make it worth it (I'm well hung, which was part of the reason we got together). She doesn't feel like she has a chance with that sort of guy and thinks he would reject her. in fact, there was a black guy at her work she was into, but she would flirt with him and he wouldn't flirt back, so she thinks she could never get a guy that hung to want her as there are younger women in better shape, or they prefer white women. That kinda breaks my heart and it's one of the reasons I'm posting here.

She thinks I would grow resentful if she did anything. Her ideal scenario would be a threesome with myself and a BBC servicing her. She only would want it to happen if it happened naturally and organically! She also thinks it would destroy our marriage and it is wrong and if she wanted it that much we should breakup.

I know this isn’t typical for here but it still seems the best place. Any advice?

I think your only shot is a guy you befriend and then bring around your wife to get her comfortable with him and instead of you watching when and if it does happen it needs to be a threesome with you heavily involved and him lightly involved. Otherwise it doesn’t sound like you are going to get past the fantasy stage. Booze will probably need to be involved as well. You also should heed her words when she says it could ruin your marriage. She either means she might fall for another guy or she fears you getting upset and ending it. Find out what she means first.