So my wife has no idea at all I really want to watch her with a black guy. I have been watching cuck porn for the last year and I am totally in love with the idea of doing this. I have dropped hints about the possibility of inviting a third person into our sex life and I am always met with laughs or “I don’t want a bigger dick” but I feel like she is just being nice. Am in the wrong trying to pursue this? Is this really just me being irrational trying to live a fantasy?
Am I being irrational?
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Should have been "sorry for the photo". 
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Nope, not irrational at all. I lived in that world the first few years of our marriage...not a good time really. I would offer hints like you and nothing came of it. When I finally understood her desires and knew black men were a secret passion of hers, I would play 'bet me games' (like guess the electric bill totals/water bill totals, just to start) on about everything and eventually she said I must really want to see her that way. I was honest about it all at that point. We tossed ideas of a meet and well, found the right guys and bam...wins for us all. Keep the ship going steady captn...steady and sure.
Most likely there are black guys she would be attracted to. Maybe find out if there are any in particular and that will be a good start.
ALL WOMEN ON THIS SITE Any wives or girlfriends have any words of wisdom providing " he will share it with his wife." What would you women say if it was a girlfriend and you knew her husband had such a little pathetic penis 3 or 4" and he was open to his wife experiencing what you have.
To be realistic, your fantasy could end up being just that and not reality. Obviously the cuck/hotwife lifestyle is not for everyone and trying to ******* it on anyone would end up only badly. You can encourage it and see if it goes anywhere but be aware that it could end up just being a fantasy
not really That bad but more like a common reality with other cuckolds, not all cuckolds are so pathetic, some are 5/ 6/ or 7" plus But many are like you and me the 3 / 4 or 5" hard
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For a man that is already married and wants his wife to engage in this fetish purely for HIS sexual gratification and not hers, typically does not end well. Most women do not understand why their husband would want another man to have sex with her after they got married. If there is no current open honest discussions and never any open honest prior discussion or agreement regarding their roles and boundaries, it's destine to fail. With out this honest and open communication, the intimacy part of their relationship will break down. Occasionally a wife will go along with this cuckold relationship to please her husband and or her self because she has an open mind and a realistic need to be satisfied. Unfortunately when there is no open and honest discussion or communication about each others role, it usually spells disaster. She discovers she harbors resentment towards her husband because he still wants her to respond to him as her man. He is not willing to give up his role and become a submissive cuckold, now she feels torn between two men, when realistically her husband is a inadequate cuckold. More often than not, she takes off with the other man because she needs him to be satisfied and there was never any confusion as to his role as the man.
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The good news is that most relationships that have had life time success with cuckolding are the ones where both the husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend, expressed their mutual interest with the over all concept before even getting together in a life long commitment or currently discussing all the details before they hop into it, meaning you have a absolute mutual agreement. You both talked, agreed, discussed boundaries, what roles each one would have, both had clear communication beforehand. Usually when the man will assure his partner he will accept his role as a submissive cuckold, he is willing to serve the wife / girlfriend and her lover as they mutually see fit. When the lover knows these boundaries coming into the relationship as the alpha male and is committed to assisting the wife /girlfriend in training the submissive, he just naturally takes his role and makes the wife / girlfriend his woman. At this point he knows what is expected of him and the submissive husband or boyfriend knows that if he wants to be actively involved, he must always put his wife / girlfriend and her lovers needs first, before his own. He must realizes his place in the pecking order. Additionally he understands there are consequences when he is not being totally submissive as he should, according to his wife or girlfriend. This is not for everybody but it can be a successful guideline and add your own personal thoughts.
If she is asking for deeper harder that MEANS YOU TWO have to TALK . Share all this with her, bring her to this site. Please read my postings it could help and than again. She might never cross the line.
ALL WOMEN ON THIS SITE Who actually have a little cuckold. !
Any wives or girlfriends have any words of wisdom providing " he will share it with his wife." What would you women say if it was a girlfriend and you knew her husband had such a little pathetic penis 3 or 4" and he was open to his wife experiencing what you have.
Any wives or girlfriends have any words of wisdom providing " he will share it with his wife." What would you women say if it was a girlfriend and you knew her husband had such a little pathetic penis 3 or 4" and he was open to his wife experiencing what you have.
Well if the wife is ok with it all good.
It's all fun and games until you see your wife moan, scream and orgasm is ways you never even seen or fathom...lol. And then comes the jealously...lol. Becareful what you wish for bub. Being a cuck isn't for every married male. It's a way of life. You either with the ******* or not.
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I was very awkward with my first wife, and just lucky that she was totally on board. I have mentioned quite a few times on this board before, that she had a stranger dick inside her under 2 hours from me clumsily broaching the topic for the first time.
I've tried a few things with girlfriends that worked. It's really about conversation and conversational style. I am lucky in that it is my natural style to talk about other people, sexual situations, and to pose questions like "Would you do that?!" If no, then would you like to? But there is no guarantee of success. As others said, you have to focused on her pleasure, not your fantasy gratification. Don't try to ******* a square peg into a round hole (unless she really gets off on square pegs!).
I've tried a few things with girlfriends that worked. It's really about conversation and conversational style. I am lucky in that it is my natural style to talk about other people, sexual situations, and to pose questions like "Would you do that?!" If no, then would you like to? But there is no guarantee of success. As others said, you have to focused on her pleasure, not your fantasy gratification. Don't try to ******* a square peg into a round hole (unless she really gets off on square pegs!).
Most definitely this is for her because I don't think I can pleasure her how she would like to be. We have a lot fun with toys and stuff but I know deep down she wants to be fucked by a much bigger cock. The way I see it is that I would be completely satisfied (especially sexually) watching my wife be fucked by another man as long as he can pleasure her in ways that I can't. We only have one life and I don't want to keep her from enjoying what could be the best change in our sex life we could ever make.
This has also crossed my mind as well which is why I am here seeking out advice from experienced people. I am trying to do this the right way but I am also not naive and think that nothing bad could happen from this. I do believe it is worth a shot to at least throw the idea out there and explore her thoughts on this. I would view her moaning, screaming and orgasming while being fucked by another man as a great thing because she deserves to be fucked properly.
Contrary to belief, your wife wants a black man all in her guys rearranging her canal...lol. But yes, slowly ease the idea on her and even find a black gentleman to befriend on the surface level to where she knows about it and think you two are friends. The cover up will be he's you co-worker or a gym buddy who you work out with. Make you guys friendship seem legit in her eyes view. But actually you should search for a black man to devour your wife online with posting ads up to find one who you deem a cool contender. Make sure he's sane and diseased free. Screening the right candidate can be tedious. Can't wait for you to post the results. I'm not a cuck but an alpha DOMinante male who know how cucks operate because i was one of those trusted guys who bred their wives every chance I could
Cuck friends are the best friend to have in my honest opinion. Like one cuck told me, happy wife, happy life. Good luck aspiring cuck
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