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I recently watched an interview with the feminist author Germaine Greer on the BBC (now, now the broadcasting company I mean!) and she touched upon female sexuality and marriage.
She seemed to express that monogamy was not in the interest of women and cited research showing that in terms of happiness, various relationship permutations showed the following:
Married men - most happy
Single women - second
Married women - third
Single men - least happy
It is old-hat that most religions are obsessed about female sexuality and have devised numerous edicts and precepts to control women. These dictates are not only reinforced by religious texts and social mores but are internalized by women themselves. In many religions and societies there a 2 ways at looking at women - the virgin and the whore. There is almost a paranoia that if women are too sexual all of society and life as we know it will come to an end!
And even now as religion loses its grip (in the West) these concepts are still often propounded by a male dominated media and marriage is still seen as the only way for couples to live together. Anyway you could talk forever on the staggering hypocrisy and immorality surrounding female sexuality and the lengths societies and religions have gone to control it, but here I want to discuss alternatives to the standard monogamous relationship.
Germaine talked of a female sexuality that allowed the female to be desirous and exploratory, to not be purely the object of male sexual desire but to be pro-active in her desires too. I agree with this wholeheartedly but how are we to live in relationships that are mutually rewarding for all parties?
There are a numerous options, depending on individual sexualities and circumstances, but I'm interested in the possibility of interracial cuckold relationships. Such a relationship is, of course, only relevant to a white couple of which both parties are excited by interracial sex, but can there be a successful match between a white female who is attracted to big black men and a white male who is aroused by his partner fucking black men?
When I say relationship I am referring to a long-term relationship, but what is a successful relationship? It cannot be measured by longevity as often couples stay unhappily together for the sake of the *******, worried what the neighbours and family may think, too costly to part or it's just too much of an hassle to start over again. It surely can only be measured in terms of the emotional, mental and physical satisfaction and well-being of the parties concerned.
This does not mean forming a relationship that is purely indulgent and servile to the senses and has no boundaries. Rather a relationship where both parties are aware and considerate of each others' needs and desires, and are open enough to disclose and discuss them with each other. A relationship should also be about setting and achieving goals both as a couple and as individuals.
I can say what I want from the perspective of a white cuckold but cannot really know whether this is compatible or complementary with any partner, ultimately it is only the living of the relationship that will highlight this.
As a man I do want many of the things often associated with a marriage (ah! The irony of that!) such as intimacy, love, friendship and doing things together but as a cuckold, and hence sexually, I want other things too.
As a cuckold I want (need) to be the beta male in the bedroom whereas big black men will be the alpha and dominant men. This is not punishment but how I am sexually 'at home' and at ease. It is for my partner and her black bulls to decide on what sexual access I have to my partner or if I'm to be denied altogether.
I believe there are so many exciting avenues to be explored in interracial sex and doing the exploring as a white cuckold couple makes it a safer adventure than doing it alone. I want my partner to experience the joys of her sexuality and not be confined to what I could provide sexually - God forbid! I do have one limitation though, namely my partner would only fuck black men, as such, it is paramount that she really likes big black men!
Could such a relationship really be successful? I would gain sexual pleasure (both vicarious and real) from my partner but she would gain most sexual pleasure from her black bulls, so sexually we wouldn't be reciprocal - is this a problem? I don't know is the answer, and this is for a female to answer rather than me.
Perhaps the sexual aspect should not be the focus as both sides receive pleasure from the black bull fucking the white woman. Maybe the main question is what does a white female gain from having a cuckold relationship?
It is my belief that my partner will gain from having a male partner who shows the more feminine side of masculinity including greater intimacy, empathy, tactility and support. These are qualities that may not set the bed on fire but are important for a successful long-term relationship. The fire and excitement would come from big black men.
Ultimately though, perhaps for most people it isn't the type of relationship that matters but the characteristics of the people involved and how well they complement or conflict with each other. Still, for me the interracial cuckold relationship is important, but more important is the partner I find to share its pleasures and our future.
Wayne
She seemed to express that monogamy was not in the interest of women and cited research showing that in terms of happiness, various relationship permutations showed the following:
Married men - most happy
Single women - second
Married women - third
Single men - least happy
It is old-hat that most religions are obsessed about female sexuality and have devised numerous edicts and precepts to control women. These dictates are not only reinforced by religious texts and social mores but are internalized by women themselves. In many religions and societies there a 2 ways at looking at women - the virgin and the whore. There is almost a paranoia that if women are too sexual all of society and life as we know it will come to an end!
And even now as religion loses its grip (in the West) these concepts are still often propounded by a male dominated media and marriage is still seen as the only way for couples to live together. Anyway you could talk forever on the staggering hypocrisy and immorality surrounding female sexuality and the lengths societies and religions have gone to control it, but here I want to discuss alternatives to the standard monogamous relationship.
Germaine talked of a female sexuality that allowed the female to be desirous and exploratory, to not be purely the object of male sexual desire but to be pro-active in her desires too. I agree with this wholeheartedly but how are we to live in relationships that are mutually rewarding for all parties?
There are a numerous options, depending on individual sexualities and circumstances, but I'm interested in the possibility of interracial cuckold relationships. Such a relationship is, of course, only relevant to a white couple of which both parties are excited by interracial sex, but can there be a successful match between a white female who is attracted to big black men and a white male who is aroused by his partner fucking black men?
When I say relationship I am referring to a long-term relationship, but what is a successful relationship? It cannot be measured by longevity as often couples stay unhappily together for the sake of the *******, worried what the neighbours and family may think, too costly to part or it's just too much of an hassle to start over again. It surely can only be measured in terms of the emotional, mental and physical satisfaction and well-being of the parties concerned.
This does not mean forming a relationship that is purely indulgent and servile to the senses and has no boundaries. Rather a relationship where both parties are aware and considerate of each others' needs and desires, and are open enough to disclose and discuss them with each other. A relationship should also be about setting and achieving goals both as a couple and as individuals.
I can say what I want from the perspective of a white cuckold but cannot really know whether this is compatible or complementary with any partner, ultimately it is only the living of the relationship that will highlight this.
As a man I do want many of the things often associated with a marriage (ah! The irony of that!) such as intimacy, love, friendship and doing things together but as a cuckold, and hence sexually, I want other things too.
As a cuckold I want (need) to be the beta male in the bedroom whereas big black men will be the alpha and dominant men. This is not punishment but how I am sexually 'at home' and at ease. It is for my partner and her black bulls to decide on what sexual access I have to my partner or if I'm to be denied altogether.
I believe there are so many exciting avenues to be explored in interracial sex and doing the exploring as a white cuckold couple makes it a safer adventure than doing it alone. I want my partner to experience the joys of her sexuality and not be confined to what I could provide sexually - God forbid! I do have one limitation though, namely my partner would only fuck black men, as such, it is paramount that she really likes big black men!
Could such a relationship really be successful? I would gain sexual pleasure (both vicarious and real) from my partner but she would gain most sexual pleasure from her black bulls, so sexually we wouldn't be reciprocal - is this a problem? I don't know is the answer, and this is for a female to answer rather than me.
Perhaps the sexual aspect should not be the focus as both sides receive pleasure from the black bull fucking the white woman. Maybe the main question is what does a white female gain from having a cuckold relationship?
It is my belief that my partner will gain from having a male partner who shows the more feminine side of masculinity including greater intimacy, empathy, tactility and support. These are qualities that may not set the bed on fire but are important for a successful long-term relationship. The fire and excitement would come from big black men.
Ultimately though, perhaps for most people it isn't the type of relationship that matters but the characteristics of the people involved and how well they complement or conflict with each other. Still, for me the interracial cuckold relationship is important, but more important is the partner I find to share its pleasures and our future.
Wayne
