Advice for first MMF threesome

[WantYoungBBC]

Looking for advice on having first MMF threesome. My BF and I have never done anything like this before. I’ve had plenty of black cock and love it but my fantasy of being with two guys has never been fulfilled. My BF was never into this before but gets extremely turned on by how much I get turned on masturbating to this scenario. A close family member is getting a divorce because his wife left him for a woman they had a threesome with. How do you navigate inviting someone into your bedroom without destroying the relationship? I also worry that the reality won’t live up to the real experience. It’s perfect in my mind but acting it out IRL is scary.

 

[danum99]

1. How do you navigate inviting someone into your bedroom without destroying the relationship?
honestly, if these are in your thoughts now, it means you are not ready for it. that is why your instincts are troubling you. if you are not ready, and your relationship means the world to you, dont get into it.
fantasise more with your bf. talk to him, and keep doing this. perhaps the right time will come.

2. I also worry that the reality won’t live up to the real experience.
if the need to fulfil your sexual desire is strong, it will be an enjoyable experience. if you think he will make you cum 25 times then nothing will fulfil the real experience.


both the points you mentioned actually means youre not ready. so if you are not, dont push it. bide your time.

 

[don Giovanni]

Completely disagree.

1. How do you navigate inviting someone into your bedroom without destroying the relationship?
honestly, if these are in your thoughts now, it means you are not ready for it. that is why your instincts are troubling you. if you are not ready, and your relationship means the world to you, dont get into it.
fantasise more with your bf. talk to him, and keep doing this. perhaps the right time will come.

2. I also worry that the reality won’t live up to the real experience.
if the need to fulfil your sexual desire is strong, it will be an enjoyable experience. if you think he will make you cum 25 times then nothing will fulfil the real experience.


both the points you mentioned actually means youre not ready. so if you are not, dont push it. bide your time.

If you're really interested in this, I would suggest dabbling in public first before proceeding with it.
If you're in Boston, you should go out to some clubs, such as jazz clubs in Roxbury, but go somewhere where you won't bump into anyone you know. There, you will feel sexy and flirted with, but you gotta really put yourself out there, as in, there has to be no question that you want to flirt.
Or go to some special event out of town, such as the swingers cruise, the Mocha event, or some nudist or swingers club in Florida. That way, you can try it, but then you have to leave, and you can leave that experience behind you so you can discuss and relive it when you're home.

 

[barbiesdude]

Dress sexy, drinks and dancing at a hip hop club. black guys will be all over you. you wont be able to resist all the attention and you will feel like a queen. you might even go into heat from the experience! i've seen this with my lady many times. its amazing to watch it all unfold.