So, I recently joined FetLife to find a play partner in my city or find those whom are visiting my city. So, on the 4th of July this month, I went to my first FetLife events ((there were 2-one in afternoon and one at night) over at the Loft in midtown. It was pretty cool actually. Given how it was my first time visiting the venue and going to a event at a swinger's club, I had upgrade my clothing a bit. So, I went out to Phillips Plaza and got some new clothes. I did had to take some funds with me since I was a single male along with condoms, lube, etc. Anyhow, the owner of the venue was pretty cool and was kind enough to show me around. I did watch a couple (one white girl and two black men) in a threesome. I didn't participate since I'm more of a one on one kind of guy and plus, I like my privacy. Knowing that I used to watch interracial porn sometimes, but seeing interracial sex in real life up close compared to porn is pretty unique and fascinating. So real life sex is way better than porn.
At the event that I went to for the afternoon one, there wasn't that many women there. There were 2 or three women but they weren't in my age range which 18-39. I did watch one girl dance on a stripper pole, so that was pretty cool. Overall, I did enjoy myself. It was fun. So after I went back home, I got ready for the second event which was for a interracial/BBC event and went to my second FetLife event. I went but had to leave early due to my phone completely dying on me. So, I called a Uber and headed home. When I left my first event at the Loft, I spoke with the owner for a minute and he said usually it may get busy (meaning more couples and single women arriving) later on 4th of July, so I kept that in mind. I do plan on attending more FetLife events in the future. I'm putting it on hold at the moment since I'm focusing on bettering myself financially right now so that I'm more stable so I can take care of my rent and bills without struggling. But the first time going there was pretty interesting and fun. I'm completely new to interracial sex and white/asian women since I haven't been with either sexually though I did almost hook up with one whom came over (she brought a condom and we met on the Blendr app) but we didn't have sex so that's that basically. Well, that's all I have to say. Hope everyone is having a good Monday.
At the event that I went to for the afternoon one, there wasn't that many women there. There were 2 or three women but they weren't in my age range which 18-39. I did watch one girl dance on a stripper pole, so that was pretty cool. Overall, I did enjoy myself. It was fun. So after I went back home, I got ready for the second event which was for a interracial/BBC event and went to my second FetLife event. I went but had to leave early due to my phone completely dying on me. So, I called a Uber and headed home. When I left my first event at the Loft, I spoke with the owner for a minute and he said usually it may get busy (meaning more couples and single women arriving) later on 4th of July, so I kept that in mind. I do plan on attending more FetLife events in the future. I'm putting it on hold at the moment since I'm focusing on bettering myself financially right now so that I'm more stable so I can take care of my rent and bills without struggling. But the first time going there was pretty interesting and fun. I'm completely new to interracial sex and white/asian women since I haven't been with either sexually though I did almost hook up with one whom came over (she brought a condom and we met on the Blendr app) but we didn't have sex so that's that basically. Well, that's all I have to say. Hope everyone is having a good Monday.
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