mplscouple86
Couple
Hello,
We are a white couple from Minneapolis, together for 12 years married for 10 and have 3 children at home. I have talked to her about this fantasy for a few years now and have not had much success in engaging her in a conversation about it or getting any sense of whether she would be open to the idea or not.
This morning she was feeling sad about getting older and I told her you are still absolutely stunning and other guys think so too. She shrugged it off and just said “no they don’t”. I suggested we go to a bar some night and have her do her hair makeup and wear a really cute outfit and then I sit across the bar and watch guys hit on her. She said “if they do” and I said “trust me I guarantee you will get hit on if we do this and I think it would be a nice confidence boost for you realize how desired you are” she actually agreed to do it at some point soonish which previously would have never ever happened.
Should I be excited? How should I proceed? I want to encourage her without overwhelming her with my excitement about all of this. She agreed to buy a new dress, shoes and panties for the night and I told her I would send her to get her hair and makeup done if she would like as well. The plan would be to have an overnight sitter and just stay at a hotel downtown so we can play the night be ear as far as how long she wants to stay at the bar.
I’m under no illusion that she is suddenly going to jump into bed with one of the guys on the first night we ever go do this and realize fully that she may not ever do that but I’m feeling extremely excited by this development and her willingness to have a night like this of getting hit on and flirting etc. I never in a million years thought she would have agreed to even do this. The fact that she has agreed to it makes me think there is some glimmer of hope in all of this. Would love any feedback and or advice on how to proceed carefully. Thanks and excited to finally be on this page posting not just fantasizing!
We are a white couple from Minneapolis, together for 12 years married for 10 and have 3 children at home. I have talked to her about this fantasy for a few years now and have not had much success in engaging her in a conversation about it or getting any sense of whether she would be open to the idea or not.
This morning she was feeling sad about getting older and I told her you are still absolutely stunning and other guys think so too. She shrugged it off and just said “no they don’t”. I suggested we go to a bar some night and have her do her hair makeup and wear a really cute outfit and then I sit across the bar and watch guys hit on her. She said “if they do” and I said “trust me I guarantee you will get hit on if we do this and I think it would be a nice confidence boost for you realize how desired you are” she actually agreed to do it at some point soonish which previously would have never ever happened.
Should I be excited? How should I proceed? I want to encourage her without overwhelming her with my excitement about all of this. She agreed to buy a new dress, shoes and panties for the night and I told her I would send her to get her hair and makeup done if she would like as well. The plan would be to have an overnight sitter and just stay at a hotel downtown so we can play the night be ear as far as how long she wants to stay at the bar.
I’m under no illusion that she is suddenly going to jump into bed with one of the guys on the first night we ever go do this and realize fully that she may not ever do that but I’m feeling extremely excited by this development and her willingness to have a night like this of getting hit on and flirting etc. I never in a million years thought she would have agreed to even do this. The fact that she has agreed to it makes me think there is some glimmer of hope in all of this. Would love any feedback and or advice on how to proceed carefully. Thanks and excited to finally be on this page posting not just fantasizing!
I am so glad im not the only one here in MN... me near STP area though
