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    Do you still love your husband?

    I do love my husband, but that love has changed over time. When we first met, I was 20 and he was older, dominant, and experienced. I craved him in a raw and primal way, in addition to loving our intellectual and emotional connection. When he started sharing me, we both encountered men who...
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    Ask Em Anything

    Mmmmmm. What an update, whtcplinphx! Thank you! Keep up with that dirty talk, and when you're ready have a serious conversation with her about exploring the lifestyle. You're on your way. Please keep me posted!
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    Falling in love with your BBC Bull?

    It is absolutely possible, and if you repeat with one bull regularly, then it becomes probable. I fell hard for one of our bulls several years ago. I started to break rules to be with him and he asked me to leave hubby to be his exclusively. I made the very difficult decision to break it off...
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    I don't know if he will ever be really "feminized" and I can't imagine him wearing women's clothes. He is pretty masculine and dominant in different settings. And he is also resistant or at least very conflicted about bisexuality. But with the right bull, I think he can be persuaded to assume...
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    Ask Em Anything

    Glad you enjoyed it!
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    Ask Em Anything

    Happy to be of help. Good luck, and please lmk how it goes!
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    Please, any advise needed entering this lifestyle..

    Totally agree with all the comments above that a honest, direct conversation is the way to go. There should be no tricking or pressuring -- that's weak, a major turn-off, and is the one thing most likely to ruin the possibility. Even if the answer ends up being "no", a woman will at least...
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    Thanks, hon. I hope I can share things that help other women and couples, too. I've introduced...

    Thanks, hon. I hope I can share things that help other women and couples, too. I've introduced many to the lifestyle IRL, but only recently started sharing advice online.
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    Ask Em Anything

    In addition to IR porn and using your extension, I would suggest being a bit more honest and direct (versus "gentle") about your desires. Perhaps something like... "One of my biggest turn-ons is imagining you cumming with a hung black stud. I would love to see you experiencing that kind of...
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    Ask Em Anything

    Well then, there's clearly 3 paths to pursue here... 1. keep talking with him about it, while also consistently reassuring him that you love him and will never leave him, but that this is a sexual longing that you really need satisfied. hope that he comes around. 2. accept that this is never...
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    Ask Em Anything

    Sorry to hear that your needs are going unmet. Have you talked to your hubby/bf about it?
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    Ask Em Anything

    Hi Folks, I'm Em. Been a member with my hubby here for some time, but just set up my own account. I'm 29, fit, and been shared by my hubby Jay for the past 9 years. I have two black daddies who fuck me 2-3 times per month, leaving me in puddles of *******. Jay is white and he supports me...
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    My hubby is not a sissy, but over time, he has become more submissive, and curious about bi-encounters. I honestly think it was 2 things....1) a very dominant bull that wanted to turn him bi. that bull, eventually got my hubby to stroke his cock. 2) me, pegging my hubby with one of my dildos. He...
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