Welcome, Stevewonder. Two suggestions would be to add information about yourself to your profile and then take a few minutes to verify as a real person. It is super easy to do and helps all know you are who you say. Here is the link for you.
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/read-me-1st-how-to-become-verified-as-a-real-person.50490/
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/read-me-1st-how-to-become-verified-as-a-real-person.50490/