How far did it go the first time (poll)

How far did you get when you or your wife had your first hotwife date?

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Shytallwife

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My wife and I decided to try hotwifing. Our marriage has been going on for 18 years. We realized that we are finally free from some obligations, and we can have some sex fun. I knew from college that my wife liked black guys. Then we were swirled by family life and various domestic problems. Now, for a year, we have decided to give free rein to our sex fantasies.

I allow my wife to post intimate photos on one social network and chat with men on a sex forum. I also have access to her account, and periodically read what they correspond about.

These conversations excited me so much that one day I was visited by a first time hotwife story. I thought that in fact my wife and I had so little fun in this life! I read on a sex forum a few first time hotwifing. I realized that this is what I want to give to my wife.

I shared this story with her and suggested first time hotwife story. We discussed that since she likes to communicate with men and share her photos on a sex forum so much, then the hotwifing is what will entertain us.

Now I found one man on the hotwifing first sex forum. I text him about my wife and about the possibility of a first time hotwife story. I have detailed everything I know about my wife, what she loves in sex, what excites her. And he is quite interested in our couple.

He already has a lot of first time hotwifing experience with couples. I sent him many sex photos of my wife. And he sent me his, so that I could show them to my wife later. He communicates very politely and competently. He said he had some ideas for a first time hotwife story with our couple, but he'd share them when I let my wife know.

It worries me a lot. I have not yet shown our hotwifing correspondence with this man to my wife. I am very interested in the question, how far did it go the first time hotwife story? Is it necessary to discuss this issue in advance?
 
If we’re talking actual meet-up date, I had vaginal and anal sex with a condom. It should be said that we had several conversations over zoom/FaceTime for vibe checks and compatibility. Also when we do dates, for discretion, we usually meet at hotels a good distance away. So by the time we actually meet, there has to be a huge red flag that we didn’t see over our previous conversations for us to not go through with sex. Has it happened… I want to say only once.

Also, for me, anal sex and vaginal sex is just sex. I’ve really learned to enjoy the sensation of anal sex (and as you may be able to tell from the profile pic, most guys will go for the ass) so I don’t find it any more taboo than vaginal sex so have no issues giving both holes if I’m giving one.

I think condom is the better threshold of trust.
 
She did it a week after loosing her virginity to me. This was after several weeks of build up, foreplay, and encouragement.

She was in college at the time, inexperienced completely, but really got off to various porn. I was already very experienced, she made it clear once we were mutually masturbating with porn she had a thing for bbc porn, which made cuckold pork very easy to find. After some shyness she really wanted to try some of the things she was seeing.

When the weekend came she was ready we ended up having sex, with a condom, she had made it clear I'll be the only one wearing one if she made it happen. A weekend later a guy she was familiar with was at a party, she took him to her apartment and they fucked, bare. We were slightly long distance but I wish I could've been there the first time to hear her moans with her first bare cock. He wasn't super massive but was definitely hung. She didn't let him pull out, which led to some breeding play very early on.

It was fun, wreckless but we're pretty open with each other. She played throughout her final 2 years of college, still does although much rarer now. It's difficult to find a sane, understanding, and long term guy later in adult life.
 
Shytallwife said:
My wife and I decided to try hotwifing. Our marriage has been going on for 18 years. We realized that we are finally free from some obligations, and we can have some sex fun. I knew from college that my wife liked black guys. Then we were swirled by family life and various domestic problems. Now, for a year, we have decided to give free rein to our sex fantasies.

I allow my wife to post intimate photos on one social network and chat with men on a sex forum. I also have access to her account, and periodically read what they correspond about.

These conversations excited me so much that one day I was visited by a first time hotwife story. I thought that in fact my wife and I had so little fun in this life! I read on a sex forum a few first time hotwifing. I realized that this is what I want to give to my wife.

I shared this story with her and suggested first time hotwife story. We discussed that since she likes to communicate with men and share her photos on a sex forum so much, then the hotwifing is what will entertain us.

Now I found one man on the hotwifing first sex forum. I text him about my wife and about the possibility of a first time hotwife story. I have detailed everything I know about my wife, what she loves in sex, what excites her. And he is quite interested in our couple.

He already has a lot of first time hotwifing experience with couples. I sent him many sex photos of my wife. And he sent me his, so that I could show them to my wife later. He communicates very politely and competently. He said he had some ideas for a first time hotwife story with our couple, but he'd share them when I let my wife know.

It worries me a lot. I have not yet shown our hotwifing correspondence with this man to my wife. I am very interested in the question, how far did it go the first time hotwife story? Is it necessary to discuss this issue in advance?
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Sounds hot
 
On my first experience many many years ago I was very nervous even with my husband there.

However I had spoken with this gentleman several times for our first meeting and when we met he help me relax and enjoy the pleasures of the evening.

My husband stayed around long enough just to make sure I was safe and then left us to ourselves.
 
Our first we were both very nervous but the guy was experienced and made us both comfortable. We set some rules but once things got started the rules got broken lol. No condom and he fucked her in the ass which both were no no's from her but she set the rules I guess she could break them. Was a great encounter and we haven't looked back.
 
We met a black guy at a friends party, he seduced my wife over the course of the evening, we eventually went back to his house where he continued to seduce my wife eventually showing her his black cock , having now seen it and he took her hand placing it on his cock . It got to the point where she was begging for him to fuck her with his much larger black cock .
As this was a totally unplanned meeting and none of us had any condoms as my wife was in a high sexual state that she told him to fuck her but must pull out of her before cumin, he promised.So it was with out a condom that she got her first black cock experience bare back as he was approaching his orgasm he shouted out he was about to cum , she told him to fuck it up my cunt oooooh yes as he started shooting deep in her with him giving her her first black cock and seed and how did he explode in her .
 
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When we got into it as a couple I had been talking with a black man named Ken that would come by my place of work. He did not work with me but they place he worked for and my work place did business together. This had got us talking on a regular basis and eventually we swapped numbers and began texting back and forth. He knew I was married and we had not discussed anything sexual as of the moment.

My husband and I decided to test the waters with the lifestyle as a married couple so we went about it in a simple manner. I texted Ken and asked if he wanted to grab a few drinks one night and just hang out. I also did say my husband might be joining us later on if that was not an issue. Ken said it sounded like fun and we made a date.

Ken and I got to the bar about an hour before my husband did. The idea with this was just testing the waters and seeing how things went. We were having a fun time so we kept chatting and having a few more drinks. Later on my husband came by and joined us and the chat flowed really well and all of us were having a good time.

As the night went on we eventually came clean with Ken and told him that we had been considering the idea of me having sex with a black man while my husband watched. We told Ken he could say yes or no and nothing was expected past this point or the point of sex if that happened. Ken thought about it for a bit but then said yes. He told us he had done this a few times before when he had been younger but had gotten out of it due to some crazy couples he had met. We assured him we were testing the waters of it and expected nothing crazy.

We finished the drinks we had and then left the bar with plans to go to our apartment at the time. We got there and went inside which to me was the most awkward part. We all knew what we were there for but who takes the first step and when lol. I went to the bedroom and discarded my clothes for some lingerie. I came back to the living room to see Ken and my husband talking. My appearance in my lingerie ended the chat.

Ken did not miss a beat coming over and starting to kiss me. Soon his hands were wandering over my body and mine were on his in return. I gave him a blowjob right there in the living room and he returned the favor eating me out. Soon he was fucking me and it felt amazing as he did so. Again we never made it past the living room floor. We went until we both had came and had great orgasms before getting off the floor. There was some small talk and then Ken composed himself and said he'd see me again later.

After Ken left my husband and I went into the bedroom. My husband quickly brought me to a second orgasm since I was very sensitive and swollen from Ken with just his hand. He then got his turn to fuck me and he came pretty quickly from all the excitement. I was spent following this so I simply grabbed the covers and went to sle ep.
 
KellyJo said:
When we got into it as a couple I had been talking with a black man named Ken that would come by my place of work. He did not work with me but they place he worked for and my work place did business together. This had got us talking on a regular basis and eventually we swapped numbers and began texting back and forth. He knew I was married and we had not discussed anything sexual as of the moment.

My husband and I decided to test the waters with the lifestyle as a married couple so we went about it in a simple manner. I texted Ken and asked if he wanted to grab a few drinks one night and just hang out. I also did say my husband might be joining us later on if that was not an issue. Ken said it sounded like fun and we made a date.

Ken and I got to the bar about an hour before my husband did. The idea with this was just testing the waters and seeing how things went. We were having a fun time so we kept chatting and having a few more drinks. Later on my husband came by and joined us and the chat flowed really well and all of us were having a good time.

As the night went on we eventually came clean with Ken and told him that we had been considering the idea of me having sex with a black man while my husband watched. We told Ken he could say yes or no and nothing was expected past this point or the point of sex if that happened. Ken thought about it for a bit but then said yes. He told us he had done this a few times before when he had been younger but had gotten out of it due to some crazy couples he had met. We assured him we were testing the waters of it and expected nothing crazy.

We finished the drinks we had and then left the bar with plans to go to our apartment at the time. We got there and went inside which to me was the most awkward part. We all knew what we were there for but who takes the first step and when lol. I went to the bedroom and discarded my clothes for some lingerie. I came back to the living room to see Ken and my husband talking. My appearance in my lingerie ended the chat.

Ken did not miss a beat coming over and starting to kiss me. Soon his hands were wandering over my body and mine were on his in return. I gave him a blowjob right there in the living room and he returned the favor eating me out. Soon he was fucking me and it felt amazing as he did so. Again we never made it past the living room floor. We went until we both had came and had great orgasms before getting off the floor. There was some small talk and then Ken composed himself and said he'd see me again later.

After Ken left my husband and I went into the bedroom. My husband quickly brought me to a second orgasm since I was very sensitive and swollen from Ken with just his hand. He then got his turn to fuck me and he came pretty quickly from all the excitement. I was spent following this so I simply grabbed the covers and went to sle ep.
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great story & thank you for posting & welcome to the site. i always like hearing from the wives.
 
My husband and I actually started getting into it before we were married. Him and I met at a party and once he knew I had been with black men before it kind of became a turn on for both of us. We went about it in a simple manner. We went to one of the clubs we went to pretty often and the idea was I was going to dance, which I did, and if a black man came up to me and put on the moves I was not going to stop him. We went out and my husband sat at the table and a few times I went out and danced on the floor. There was a few guys out there dancing with different women and I danced with a few of them. One of them and I started talking and soon he asked if I wanted to take off and I said yes. I waved to my husband as we left and went to the guy's apartment where I spent the night. The next morning I came home and gave hubby the details and we had some fun of our own.
 
At first, we agreed on a simple meeting to get to know each other in a cafe. But the guy turned out to be so pleasant in communication that our evening dragged on a bit. I saw my wife's interest in the first time hotwife story with him.

We went home in a taxi all together, and I was sitting in the front seat, and the wife was in the back with this guy. At some point, I noticed that their hands were on top of each other, and then he crawled under her dress. This went on for some time. And then she sent me a message «we were all going to our apartment».

I realized she was very turned on from the first time hotwifing date with this guy. When we arrived at our apartment, he had sex with her on our bed while I watched and jerked off. So I think you need to look at the feelings of the wife at the first meeting, and also what you are ready for.
 
I’m kinda confused? Why meet someone for sex and not go all the way. If you have limits that is ok. Like no anal or condoms only or no cum in my mouth, but for us when we meet someone to play unless we or them decide it’s not a good mix we are all in for all kinds of sex,
 
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