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Thank you for your comments. Not everyone plans it out. Not everyone does it with the prior consent of the husband. But if the relationship is worth anything, the 'offending party' will have regrets and know they have to tell their SO. otherwise, the relationship is doomed.

Based on your own opinion, how often does it still work out between them when she confesses? I'm guessing it's still a pretty close percentage...

Not necessarily. If the couple has a strong, mature relationship, by the offending party confessing, and expressing a degree of sorrow for this slip in trust, it can be rebuilt. The fact of confessing shows a high level of trust. On top of that, the trust is reinforced by truely being sorry. The issue is everyone is capable of a mistake, too much to *******, swept off ones feet, curiosity are all factors.

The key is communication and open discussion. Nothing hidden. No secrets. This is one major factor as to why Rob is always present. He knows what took place, what was said, my reactions, and his reactions. He isn't left wondering at home if we have made other, secret plans, what we're doing, if my reactions are more powerful than when I'm with him, etc.

I have become aware of other women having a fling (especially while away at a conference). I always tell her to come clean and you know, those that did continue to be married. Of two that didn't, one was divorced within the year. Lack of trust was cited.